The confusion around transfer information is extremely common in the federal system, and the other inmate telling your brother he was being messed with may or may not be right depending on the source of the original information.
In the Bureau of Prisons, designation decisions are made by the Designation and Sentence Computation Center in Grand Prairie, Texas. That information is then passed to the inmate's unit team, which includes the case manager, counselor, and unit team manager. These are the staff members with direct access to designation records, and if one of them told your brother where he is going, that information carries real weight and should be taken seriously.
A correctional officer on the other hand does not typically have access to designation data and is not a reliable source for transfer information. COs hear things, pass things along, and sometimes engage in the kind of casual misdirection that creates exactly this type of confusion. It is not necessarily malicious, but it is unreliable.
On the Oklahoma routing question, yes, this is real. The Federal Transfer Center in Oklahoma City is one of the main transit hubs in the federal system and a large number of inmates pass through it on the way to their final designated facility. Being told Oklahoma is in the route does not mean Oklahoma is the final destination. It is often simply a stop along the way, sometimes lasting days and sometimes weeks, before the inmate continues on to where they will actually serve their sentence.
The best thing your brother can do is confirm the information directly with his case manager or counselor rather than relying on what other inmates say. That is the only source worth trusting on something this important.
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