How to get inmate to sign paternity papers

Congratulations on your baby. This is something you can absolutely get done, but it takes a few specific steps when the father is incarcerated.

You cannot just send standard paperwork and expect it to be signed and accepted. Paternity forms usually have to be handled in a way that meets legal and facility requirements.

Here is how to do it the right way:

Contact the facility first
Call the prison or jail and ask for Records or the Counselor’s office. Let them know you need to have an inmate sign paternity or acknowledgment of paternity paperwork. They will tell you their exact process.

Use the correct form
Most states require an official “Acknowledgment of Paternity” form. You can usually get this from:

• The hospital where you gave birth
• Your state’s vital records office
• The child support enforcement office

Notarization is usually required
This is the important part. The form often must be notarized. Many facilities have a notary available for inmates, but it must be arranged through staff. You cannot notarize it yourself unless you are both present.

Mail the paperwork properly
Once you confirm the process, you can send the forms through the mail or using InmateAid to make sure they are delivered correctly. Include clear instructions for him.

Alternative option
If this feels complicated, you can also go through your local child support office. They can help establish paternity and coordinate everything with the facility.

A few things to keep in mind:

• He will need valid identification on file with the facility
• Processing can take a little time depending on staff availability
• Each state and facility may have slightly different rules

Start by calling the facility. That will save you time and make sure everything is done correctly the first time so your baby can legally carry his last name.