I love my man with all my heart but everyone keeps aaying I need to stay away from him and saying how badly he treated them and ill kinda of things. Im just so lost and dont know what to do or how ro handle it

These are tough decisions that no one can make for you. You have to weigh all of the good and all of the bad and make the hard choice. You already know what to do, but you fear the future and how things will work out in your life. have faith in yourself. Staying in a bad relationship is the opposite.