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Subject: Relationship issues
Can I see my boyfriend ever or talk to him? He is in for a domestic violence, on me
The question is why would you want to continue in a relationship that requires you to take a beating of any kind? Hopefully, they keep you away from him so that you can move on with your life. There are millions of guys that you could kind that won't ever think of hitting you. You should explore this new "freedom" and stop going back.
Subject: Relationship issues
Is it even possible to have sex with an inmate? Can some kind of arrangement be made?
If you are referring to YOU having sex with an inmate, that is not going to happen as there are no prisons that have conjugal visits any longer. BUT, it can happen - I was in a federal camp and there were two or three guys that had some arrangement with the guards that gave them a broom closet to have sex in the middle of visitation. If I didn't see it myself I would have doubted the story. I also...
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Subject: Relationship issues
I was curious to know what you think the percentage of women at Leath Correctional Institution engage in sexual activity with other inmates......and what percentage you think that the women inmates engage in sexual activity with the staff or guards there???
We would say that 1/3 to 1/2 have engaged in some sex with other inmates, but less than 5% that would have it with the guards (that is a felony where the guard becomes an inmate)
Subject: Relationship issues
Its not really a question so much but I would like to find out if the one that I wrote to appreciated it and if he even wants me to write him again. Ive gotten nothing back so how do I find this out?
If the letter did not get sent back, he definitely got your letter. Since we don't know what is going on in the relationship, but we would encourage you to keep writing and see what happens. If he is a little angry, give it some time. I can tell you for a fact we love every piece of mail that comes in, even junk mail LOL.
Subject: Relationship issues
When I go to valley state prison locator it says my mans out date is 10/03/2019 he’s telling me it’s octotober 31 2019 so is he lying
Why would he lie about this, in order to stay in an extra month? Sometimes the inmate release date changes slightly for a variety of reasons. If he is lying about this, it might say something about the relationship
Subject: Relationship issues
How do I know my boyfriend isn't talking to any other woman while incarcerated? Is there a way I can get a copy of his call list at the front desk of the prison next time I visit?
The only way you'll know is if your inmate tells you. You cannot get a copy of or information regarding to any of the inmate's visiting list, call list, commissary spend, or people that send your inmate money or mail. Believe it or not, inmates have a right to privacy just like you.
Subject: Relationship issues
How do I find our phone records of my inmate while in jai?
Not going to happen. The inmate is entitled to full privacy - their visitation list, call list, commissary money whereabouts, and what was spent are fully protected. 
Subject: Relationship issues
I am with an inmate that keeps coming home violating parole and going back to jail he is so sweet and loving to me but 1x a week he stays out he doesn't call til; the next day how do I now hes not using drugs .,
Unfortunately, you already know the answer to this one.  Your loved one is still using and no matter how they appear most of the time, those unexplained absences are explained when he violates (as a result of a UI or other tests). The only person that can change is the person using - they have to want to change or nothing will change.
Subject: Relationship issues
What is the steps to take a paternity test?
If you are asking how to get an inmate to take a paternity test. We assume you're asking because they won't do it voluntarily - you will have to get a court order that compels the facility to release the results of the DNA test for that person, that is done on all inmates.
Subject: Relationship issues
I know this is not the best of questions..but I think my GF has a prison wife and I really need to know what to expect..isim sure she is open about it around a lot of other people any way I can get info from a guard or inmate
There is not much you can do about your suspicion except ask your GF. There are no guards that will violate the rules and communicate what transpires inside the prison. If you know another inmate, maybe they can help you. But if you suspect something, it probably is happening. We wish you the best.