Actually, it is the opposite. Knowing someone is waiting for you makes the time easier, not harder. That might sound counterintuitive, but it holds up. Having a person on the outside who loves you and is holding things together gives you something concrete to focus on. It is a reason to stay out of trouble, keep your head down, and protect your release date. Inmates without that anchor often struggle more, not less, because the time feels purposeless.
Read moreThere is no exact timeline, and anyone who gives you a specific number is guessing. What you are dealing with is a process that moves at the pace of the supervising agency, and that pace varies significantly depending on where you live and how backed up the caseload is. When a registered sex offender on supervision wants to have contact with a minor, even their own child, the process is thorough by design. A probation or parole officer has
Read moreWhat you are experiencing right now is completely normal, even though it does not feel that way at midnight when you cannot find any information. Transfers in the California system are handled quietly and deliberately. The CDCR does not update inmate locators in real time, and the VSA tends to lag as well. The institutional priority during a transfer is getting the inmate safely to the new facility, not updating databases. That administrative catch-up happens after the fact.
Read moreNot really, the phones are open from 6:30 am to 9:30 pm with a couple of hours blocked off in the middle of the day when the inmates are supposed to be at their work assignment
Read moreA fight on the morning of his scheduled release is going to raise red flags with staff, and the delay is a direct result of that. Juvenile facilities take incidents seriously, especially ones that happen right before a release date. The timing is what makes this particularly concerning from their perspective. A fight hours before walking out the door suggests either poor impulse control, unresolved conflict with another resident, or on some level a reluctance to leave. Staff have
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Read moreYou are already ahead of most people by asking the question before you go in, rather than after. That instinct will serve you well. The first thing to find is a routine. However long your sentence is, boredom is going to be one of your biggest enemies. Reading was what saved my sanity, and it is partly why InmateAid exists today. Find whatever that thing is for you, whether it is reading, writing, working out, taking education courses, or
Read moreUnfortunately, the birth of a child is not grounds for early release in the federal or state system. It is one of the most common questions families ask, and the answer is consistently no. The Bureau of Prisons and state correctional systems do not recognize the birth of a child as a qualifying event for compassionate release or any other early release mechanism. To put it in stark terms, even a woman who is incarcerated and pregnant does not
Read moreThis is one of the hardest places to be, and nobody can make this decision for you. That is not a dodge, it is just the truth. When multiple people in your life, people who have direct experience with him, are telling you the same thing, that is worth sitting with seriously. They are not all wrong and they are not all coming from a bad place. People who have been on the receiving end of how someone treats
Read moreThere are a few possible explanations here, and not all of them are about you or the relationship. The most common institutional reason is a facility lockdown. When a lockdown is called, all visits are suspended across the board, sometimes for days at a time. The inmate does not cancel individually in that situation, the facility cancels everything, and communication during a lockdown is often restricted as well, which is why you may not be hearing an explanation from
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