Hawaii Prison and Your Kids: What Families Face

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I did not serve my time in Hawaii. I served 66 months in the federal system, at FCI Miami, and I want to be clear about that from the first sentence. What I know about Hawaii comes from thirteen years of helping families navigate incarceration from the outside, not from a cell in any Hawaii DCR facility.

But I want to say something specific about Hawaii before anything else, because there is a dimension of incarceration in this state that does not apply anywhere else in the country, and it changes everything about how I need to talk to you.

Some Hawaii families are not managing a drive to a state facility. Some Hawaii families are managing the distance between the Pacific Islands and the continental United States, because Hawaii has historically housed a portion of its incarcerated population in private facilities on the mainland. When your person is in a facility in Arizona or Oklahoma or somewhere else on the continent, the word "distance" no longer means what it means in any other state. It means flights. It means travel costs that most families cannot easily absorb. It means that the in-person visit is not a weekend commitment -- it is a rare and expensive event, if it is possible at all.

The phone call, in that situation, is not a supplement to the visit. It is the relationship, stretched across an ocean and a continent, doing the whole job.

I know what phone calls have to carry when distance makes visits impossible. I served my time in Florida, and my family drove 90 minutes each way for years. That was hard. What Hawaii families managing mainland placement face is categorically harder, and I want to say that plainly rather than paper over it.

Here is what I know about Hawaii, and here is what I know about the part that never changes.

What the Hawaii system looks like

The Hawaii Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation -- the DCR, which took that name on January 1, 2024, having previously been the Department of Public Safety's corrections division -- oversees the state's correctional system. The DCR website is dcr.hawaii.gov. The main office is at 1177 Alakea Street, Honolulu, HI 96813, phone 808-587-1288.

Hawaii operates four jails and four prisons across the main islands:

Jails: Oahu Community Correctional Center (OCCC, Honolulu, 808-832-1777); Kauai Community Correctional Center (Lihue, 808-241-3050); Hawaii Community Correctional Center (Hilo, 808-933-0431); Maui Community Correctional Center (Wailuku, 808-243-5101).

Prisons: Halawa Correctional Facility (Aiea, Oahu, 808-485-5200); Waiawa Correctional Facility (Waipahu, Oahu, 808-677-6150); Kulani Correctional Facility (Hilo, 808-932-4430); Women's Community Correctional Center (Kailua, Oahu, 808-266-9580).

Some Hawaii inmates are housed in mainland facilities. If you are not sure where your person is, start with the Hawaii DCR or contact the facility you believe may hold them.

Phone: All Hawaii DCR facilities use GTL (ViaPath) ConnectNetwork for phone calls. This covers local, inter-island, mainland, and international calls. GTL allows calls to both landlines and wireless phones. To receive calls, set up a prepaid account through GTL's ConnectNetwork at connectnetwork.com. You can also set up an AdvancePay account, which allows your number to receive collect calls from the facility without a standard billing arrangement. Tablet services through GTL are also available at Hawaii DCR facilities, allowing video calls and other program services. Electronic deposits into the Inmate Trust Account can be made through GTL/ViaPath ConnectNetwork.

For mail, personal letters go directly to the specific facility where your person is housed. The DCR's guidance on correspondence is available at dcr.hawaii.gov. Legal mail goes directly to the facility. Some facilities are beginning to offer GettingOut email services through tablets -- check the specific facility for current availability, as not all facilities have tablet approval yet.

For money, electronic deposits to the Inmate Trust Account are made through GTL/ViaPath ConnectNetwork. Cashier's checks by mail are also accepted at facilities -- make payable to the inmate, include the inmate's first and last name, and address to the specific facility. Only persons on the approved visitor list may send money at some facilities.

Visitation: Contact the specific facility for current visiting schedules and guidelines. Each facility maintains its own visitation rules, hours, and schedules. The OCCC visitation schedule was updated as recently as January 2025; check the DCR website for current schedules at each facility.

The children in it: when the call is everything

I want to spend most of my time here on the situation that is unique to Hawaii families -- the families whose person is on the mainland, not on an island.

When a parent is in a facility on the continental United States, the structure of the relationship that a family in Georgia or Florida or Texas takes for granted -- the weekly visit, the driving schedule, the Saturday morning trip -- is simply not available. A flight from Honolulu to the mainland starts at several hundred dollars per person, per trip. A family with multiple children, on a working-class income, without the person's earnings, is not going to fly to Arizona every month. The visit happens rarely, if it happens at all.

What fills that gap is the phone. And the phone has to carry more in that situation than it was designed to carry. It has to be the face, the presence, the evidence that the parent is still there. It has to substitute for the visiting room table. It has to deliver, in 25-minute increments, what the drive and the face-to-face would otherwise provide.

So let me tell you what I know about using the call well, because when the call is all you have, how you use it matters more.

Call on a schedule. Not whenever you can -- on a schedule the children know. A child who knows a call is coming at 6 o'clock on Sunday is a child who has something to count on. That consistency is not a small thing. It is the structural evidence that a parent is still a parent, that the relationship has not dissolved into silence just because the distance is extreme.

Use the call to be a parent, not to process your own situation out loud. Ask about school. Remember the name of the friend they mentioned last time. Be present in their actual life, not just in the fact of your absence. For the youngest children -- the 9- and 10-year-olds -- say the words plainly and say them every time: this is not your fault. I love you. I am still your parent. They need to hear it often enough to believe it over the private story they have already told themselves.

The middle-school ones are managing a social world that punishes difference. They need you to be ordinary with them. Not a wound they are tending. A parent.

The teenagers will test whether you are real. Ask genuine questions. Listen to the whole answer. Hold the opinions you cannot act on.

The young adults are choosing. Show up through the call, every time, and let that be the argument.

When your person is on an island, not the mainland

If your person is at one of the in-state facilities, the situation is more like other states -- a drive or a ferry, rather than a flight. Inter-island distance is real and can be expensive (a trip from Kauai to Oahu is a short flight or a ferry, not a long drive), but it is not the same as the mainland gap.

For families in this situation, the same general truths hold: visit as often as the schedule and budget allow, build a phone schedule the children can count on, and stay consistent. The drive or the inter-island trip has the same effect as the long drives other families make on the continent -- it is the time together that counts, not just the visit itself.

What the outside parent carries

If you are the outside parent in Hawaii -- whether your person is in-state or on the mainland -- you are carrying something that most people on the outside of this experience will never fully understand.

The logistical complexity of reaching a facility on the mainland from Hawaii is unlike anything families in the other 49 states deal with. The cost of the calls across time zones. The visits that are so expensive they become a once-a-year event at best. The children who are growing up and changing while a parent is thousands of miles away and can only watch through a tablet screen or hear it through a phone.

My wife drove 90 minutes each way for 66 months and found gifts in it -- the hours in the car with our kids, no screens, just talking. A doctor who knew our family told her early on that we would come out better than we went in because of those hours. He was right. I want to offer that truth honestly to Hawaii families without pretending it applies the same way when the distance is measured in ocean miles. The gift of those car hours is not available when you are on the phone because you cannot afford to fly.

What is available is the call. And the call, used consistently and with intention, can carry more than most people think. It carried families through COVID when visits were closed everywhere. It can carry a family through a mainland placement if both sides use it well.

You are not failing because you cannot visit every week. You are succeeding every time you pick up the phone and say this is not your fault. I love you. I am still here.

The practical list for Hawaii families

Phone: GTL (ViaPath) ConnectNetwork. Covers local, inter-island, mainland, and international calls to landlines and wireless phones. Set up a prepaid account at connectnetwork.com. AdvancePay option also available for collect call billing to your number. Tablet-based video calls and GTL messaging services available at facilities with tablet approval.

Money/deposits: Electronic deposits through GTL/ViaPath ConnectNetwork at connectnetwork.com. Cashier's checks by mail also accepted at most facilities (payable to inmate, include name, send to facility address).

Mail: Personal letters direct to the specific facility. Check dcr.hawaii.gov for current correspondence guidelines per facility. Legal mail direct to facility. Email/messaging through GettingOut at facilities with tablet approval.

Visitation: Contact the specific facility for current hours, schedule, and visitor requirements. Schedules updated regularly -- check dcr.hawaii.gov.

If person is on the mainland: Contact the mainland facility directly. Phone and deposit accounts will be through whatever provider that facility uses (may not be GTL). Confirm the provider, set up the account, and build a consistent call schedule.

Hawaii DCR: dcr.hawaii.gov. Main office: 1177 Alakea Street, Honolulu, HI 96813. Phone: 808-587-1288.

Where this leaves you

Hawaii is the hardest state in this series to navigate, for families dealing with mainland placement, because the system itself puts your person in a place you cannot easily reach. That is a real injustice and I will not minimize it.

What I can say is that people keep their families together across that distance. It takes more deliberate effort than it does when the facility is a short drive away. It requires using every tool the system offers -- the phone, the tablet, the letter, the rare visit -- with more intention than families who have easier access need to use.

The child waiting to hear from a parent in an Arizona facility or a facility on Oahu or on the Big Island needs the same thing: proof that the parent is still there. You deliver that proof through the call, every time, on schedule. And the parent inside delivers it by asking about the day and listening to the whole answer.

The sentence ends. What is there when it does is built right now, across whatever distance the system puts between you. Build it anyway.

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