Maine Prison and Your Kids: What Families Face

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I did not serve my time in Maine. I served 66 months in the federal system, at FCI Miami, and I want to say that plainly before anything else. What I know about Maine comes from thirteen years of helping families from the outside, not from a cell in a MDOC facility.

Maine is a particular kind of state to think about when it comes to incarceration. It is one of the least densely populated states in the country, and its correctional system is proportionally smaller than most. The Maine Department of Corrections oversees a handful of adult facilities. The numbers are smaller here than in the states people usually think of when they think about mass incarceration.

But smaller numbers do not mean lighter weight on families. A child with a parent in prison in Maine carries the same thing a child carries anywhere. The specifics of the system differ. What lands on the child does not.

What I will say about Maine is this: the state has made some genuine efforts to keep phone costs reasonable, and the visitor clearance process at Maine State Prison requires patience -- up to six weeks for processing. Both of those facts shape how families experience the sentence. One gives you something. One asks something of you.

Here is what I know about Maine, and here is what I know about the part that never changes.

What the Maine system looks like

The Maine Department of Corrections -- MDOC -- oversees the state's adult correctional facilities. The official website is maine.gov/corrections. To search for an incarcerated person, use the offender lookup tool at maine.gov/corrections.

The main adult facilities include Maine State Prison in Warren (the state's primary men's facility, capacity 916), Maine Correctional Center in Windham, Bolduc Correctional Facility in Warren, Mountain View Correctional Facility in Charleston, and Downeast Correctional Facility in Machiasport.

Phone: Maine state prisons use the ConnectNetwork AdvancePay phone system for inmate calling, with phone service provided through Legacy Inmate Communications at a rate of 9 cents per minute -- one of the lowest rates in the country, set by state policy and capped by Maine law. Residents cannot receive incoming calls. Set up a prepaid AdvancePay account through ConnectNetwork before your person attempts to call. Your number must be on the approved call list. GTL/ViaPath handles video calls; check the specific facility for scheduling and rates.

Visitation at Maine State Prison: All visitors must complete a paper visitor application and mail it to the facility. Applications are available from the resident, from the lobby officer, or on the MDOC website. Processing takes up to six weeks; longer if you have a criminal record. Start the application immediately -- there is no way to expedite it. Do not travel for a visit until your application has been approved and confirmed. Family members may be granted non-contact visits while awaiting full clearance for contact visits. The application address for Maine State Prison: Attention: Visits, Maine State Prison, 807 Cushing Road, Warren, ME 04864. Contact the lobby at 273-5302 with questions. For Maine Correctional Center: 17 Mallison Falls Road, Windham, ME 04062, phone 207-893-7000.

Mail: All incoming general correspondence must be written or printed in black or dark blue ink. All mail must have a verifiable name and return address. Do not send cash. Mail goes directly to the specific facility with the resident's full name and ID number. Confirm the specific mailing address at maine.gov/corrections or by contacting the facility.

Money: Online deposits can be made through JPay or Access Corrections. Money orders may be mailed directly to the facility with the resident's full name and ID number. Confirm current deposit methods and the correct payee at the specific facility.

MDOC website: maine.gov/corrections. MDOC Central Office: 25 Tyson Drive, 3rd Floor, Augusta, ME 04333. General line: 207-287-2711. Maine State Prison: 807 Cushing Road, Warren, ME 04864.

The children in it

Maine is a rural state. Warren, where Maine State Prison sits, is in Knox County, a good two hours from Portland and longer from much of the rest of the state. If your family is in Aroostook County or Washington County -- the far north and east -- you are looking at three, four, five hours to the main facility. The drive is not incidental. It is part of the sentence that the family serves.

I drove 90 minutes each way for 66 months. Not the distances that northern Maine families are managing, but the same accumulation: the planning, the gas, the children in the back seat, the calculation every time of what this trip costs and what it builds. Both things are always true simultaneously.

A doctor who knew our family told my wife early in the sentence that when it was over, we would be better off than we were before -- because of those hours in the car with the children. No screens. Just the road and talking. He was right. You can't feel that from inside the sentence. You just feel the miles.

If you are making those drives across Maine right now -- along Route 1 up the coast, through the inland forests, down from the county -- the hours are doing something. Children who watch a parent refuse to quit, trip after trip, are learning something about love in practice that they will carry for the rest of their lives. You don't have to name it for them. You just have to keep going.

Now let me say what I know about the children specifically.

My kids ranged from 9 to 20 when I went in. Six of them. What each age needed was different in ways that were more predictable than they felt at the time.

The youngest ones -- 9, 10, 11 -- cannot locate the explanation for a parent's absence anywhere except inside themselves. They build a private story, and the story almost always implicates them. You have to say the words directly and say them every call: this is not your fault. I love you. I am still your parent. Say it until it replaces what they have already decided. Then say it on the next call.

The middle-school ones are in the years when difference is dangerous. A parent in prison makes them different, and they feel it. They need a parent who knows their actual day -- who asks about the teacher by name, who remembers what happened at the game last week, who is paying attention to their life rather than broadcasting from their own situation.

The teenagers see everything and will test whether you are real. A lecture from inside is the fastest way to lose them. Ask a genuine question and listen to the whole answer. The opinions you cannot act on from where you are -- hold them. The relationship is worth more than being right.

The young adults are choosing who stays in their lives. What you do from inside is the only argument that counts.

What the outside parent carries

Maine has one practical feature that matters for outside parents: the phone rate is genuinely lower here than in most states. Nine cents a minute, set by state policy and capped by law. That is not nothing. Over the length of a sentence, the difference between nine cents and twenty cents a minute is real money -- money that either goes to the phone company or stays in a family's budget. Maine got this one right.

What Maine doesn't make easy is the six-week wait for visitor clearance at the main facility. Six weeks is a long time when you have children who need to see their parent. The only answer to a six-week process is to start it immediately -- before you feel ready, before you have figured everything else out, as soon as you know where your person is.

My wife managed 66 months of that kind of logistics -- the phone account, the visit scheduling, the children, the household -- and she did it while never once saying a word against me to our kids. She protected the relationship between me and our children as something worth saving. I came home to a family that still wanted me there because she made that choice, every single time, regardless of how tired she was.

If you are that person in Maine right now -- figuring out the application, waiting on the clearance, managing the children in the meantime -- you are doing the work that holds the family together. It does not always feel significant. From where the person inside sits, it is everything.

The practical list for Maine families

Phone: ConnectNetwork AdvancePay system, provided by Legacy Inmate Communications at 9 cents per minute. Set up a prepaid account at connectnetwork.com before your person calls. Your number must be on the approved list. Video calls through GTL/ViaPath -- confirm with specific facility for scheduling and rates.

Visitation: Submit a paper visitor application mailed to the specific facility. Up to six weeks for processing; longer with a criminal history. Start immediately. Maine State Prison applications: Attention: Visits, Maine State Prison, 807 Cushing Road, Warren, ME 04864. Maine Correctional Center: 17 Mallison Falls Road, Windham, ME 04062. Do not travel until approved. Call before every visit to confirm eligibility and no lockdown.

Mail: Black or dark blue ink only. Verifiable name and return address required. No cash. Mail to the specific facility with resident's full name and ID number. Confirm address at maine.gov/corrections.

Money: JPay or Access Corrections online. Money orders by mail to the facility. Confirm current methods and payee with the specific facility.

Inmate search: maine.gov/corrections offender lookup.

MDOC: maine.gov/corrections. General line: 207-287-2711. Central Office: 25 Tyson Drive, Augusta, ME 04333. Maine State Prison: 807 Cushing Road, Warren, ME 04864, lobby 273-5302.

Where this leaves you

Maine is a smaller system in a large, rural state. The facilities are not close to where most people live, and the visitor clearance process at the main facility requires patience that the situation does not make easy to have.

What Maine offers in return is a phone rate that reflects what the state believes families should pay to stay connected. That matters more than it sounds.

The child in Maine waiting to hear from a parent in a state facility needs the same thing every child needs: proof that the parent is still there. That proof comes through the call, the letter, the visit -- repeated for the length of the sentence, through whatever the system asks of you on the way.

I came home from 66 months to a family that was still whole. It was whole because both sides kept building it from wherever they were. Whatever Maine asks of you as a family, the building is still possible.

Do the work. It is the whole thing.

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