North Dakota Prison and Your Kids: What Families Face

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All practical details confirmed via docr.nd.gov official pages (Telephone Calls, Correspondence, Visitation, Sending Money, Resident Lookup).

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I did not serve my time in North Dakota. I served 66 months in the federal system, at FCI Miami, and I want to say that plainly from the start. What I know about North Dakota comes from thirteen years of helping families navigate incarceration from the outside, not from a cell in any ND DOCR facility.

North Dakota runs one of the smaller state correctional systems in the country. The state's population is concentrated in Bismarck, Fargo, and a handful of smaller cities, and the state has a modest number of facilities by comparison with larger states. All new residents entering the ND DOCR system begin with orientation at the North Dakota State Penitentiary in Bismarck before being assigned to a permanent facility.

There is something worth noting about how North Dakota thinks about corrections that I do not say lightly, because I have seen the gap between how agencies describe themselves and how they operate. But the ND DOCR has explicitly cited Scandinavian corrections models -- emphasizing rehabilitation, family connection, and successful reintegration -- as an influence on how the department approaches its mission. Whether that philosophy shows up in daily experience is for families and residents to judge. But the orientation toward it is real and worth naming.

When a person first arrives at NDSP for orientation, they receive two initial 5-minute phone calls. Those two calls are free. They are there specifically so a new arrival can reach out to family before the formal phone account system is set up. It is a small thing and a human one.

Here is what I know about North Dakota, and here is what I know about the part that never changes.

What the North Dakota system looks like

The North Dakota Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation -- ND DOCR -- oversees the state's adult correctional facilities. The official website is docr.nd.gov. To search for an incarcerated person, use the Resident Lookup at docr.nd.gov/resident-lookup. DOCR HQ: 3100 Railroad Avenue, Bismarck, ND 58501. Phone: 701-328-6390. Email: docr@nd.gov.

Major ND DOCR facilities include: North Dakota State Penitentiary (NDSP, Bismarck -- also all-male intake and orientation), James River Correctional Center (JRCC, Jamestown), James River Minimum Unit (JRMU, Jamestown), Missouri River Correctional Center (MRCC), and Heart River Correctional Center (HRCC).

Intake: All new residents begin orientation at NDSP in Bismarck. Upon arrival, each new resident receives two initial 5-minute phone calls. After those two calls, all subsequent calls must be paid for by the resident or an approved caller.

Phone: ND DOCR uses Securus Technologies for phone service. A Telephone Application is required before family or friends can be added to a resident's calling list. The application can be submitted electronically online at docr.nd.gov/telephone-calls, or completed as a printable PDF and mailed to the Securus Digital Mail Center. Since July 10, 2023, applications are sent to Securus -- not to the facility directly.

Mail: Personal mail goes directly to the specific facility. For NDSP residents: Resident Name and Number / North Dakota State Penitentiary / P.O. Box 5521 / Bismarck, ND 58506-5521. For JRCC and JRMU residents: Resident Name and Number / James River Correctional Center / 2521 Circle Drive / Jamestown, ND 58401. Confirm addresses for MRCC and HRCC at docr.nd.gov/correspondence.

Mail limits: Maximum 30 photos per envelope; multiple envelopes allowed the same day up to 30 total per day. Maximum 10 non-personal correspondence pages per envelope (multiple envelopes allowed). Mail from a different sender than the return address name will be rejected. Books and publications: new, sent directly from an approved publisher or vendor.

Visitation: All visitors must be on the resident's approved visiting list and complete a visitor application. Visitors 16 and older must have a valid photo ID. Children under 16 must have a birth certificate. Children under 18 must be accompanied by a parent or legal guardian (special permission from Deputy Warden required for exceptions). Visit schedules and rules vary by facility.

At JRCC and JRMU: Visitors may bring up to $20 in one-dollar bills and quarters only for vending machines in the visiting room. Cash must be in a clear plastic bag (bring your own). Visitors with infants may bring: pacifier, 2 diapers, 2 baby bottles, 1 small jar of baby food (sealed), 1 Ziploc bag of baby wipes, 1 small baby blanket. Formula must be pre-mixed liquid (no powder). No other items allowed; all other items must be in the vehicle.

At MRCC: Visitors may bring up to $10 in one-dollar bills and quarters for vending machines. Same infant/baby item allowances as JRCC.

Money: JPay is the approved vendor for offender fund transfers. Funds can be sent online, by mail, or at a kiosk. Visit jpay.com for current deposit methods and fees.

The children in it

North Dakota is a state where the geography is relatively forgiving compared to states like Montana or Nevada. Bismarck is centrally located. Fargo and Grand Forks are in the eastern part of the state, hours from Bismarck, but the distances are not the five and six-hour drives that families in the Mountain West face.

What North Dakota shares with every other state in this series is what children carry when a parent goes to prison, regardless of the distance.

My kids ranged from 9 to 20 when I went in. Six of them. What each age needed was different in ways that became clearer the further I could see.

The youngest ones -- 9, 10, 11 -- cannot place the explanation for a parent's absence anywhere except inside themselves. They build a private story, and the story almost always implicates them. You have to say the words on every call: this is not your fault. I love you. I am still your parent. Say it until it takes hold. Then say it on the next call.

The middle-school ones are managing difference. A parent in prison makes them different from their peers. They need a parent who knows their actual day -- the teacher's name, the conversation from last week, what is actually happening in their life rather than what the parent is broadcasting from their own situation.

The teenagers see everything and will test whether you are real. A lecture from inside is the fastest way to lose them. Ask a genuine question. Listen to the full answer. Hold the opinions you cannot act on. The relationship is worth more than being right.

The young adults are choosing. What you do from inside is the only argument that counts.

What the outside parent carries

North Dakota's system is small enough that most families are within a few hours of at least one facility. That is a relative advantage. But small system and easy navigation are not the same thing. The phone application still needs to go to Securus. The visitor application still needs to be completed and approved. The JPay account still needs to be set up before the commissary runs low.

The two initial free calls when a person first arrives at NDSP matter specifically because the phone account takes time to set up. Those two calls are the bridge between arrival and the formal system being in place. Make sure your number is the one your person uses for at least one of those two calls.

My wife managed 66 months of those logistics -- the accounts, the applications, the children, the household -- without ever saying a word against me to our kids. She protected the relationship between me and our children as something worth saving. I came home to a family that still wanted me there because she made that choice every single time.

If you are that person in North Dakota right now -- submitting the Securus Telephone Application, getting on the approved visitor list, setting up the JPay account -- you are doing the work that holds the family together. From the outside it can feel administrative. From the inside, it is everything.

The practical list for North Dakota families

Intake note: All new residents go through orientation at NDSP in Bismarck first. Two initial 5-minute free calls upon arrival. Make sure your number is one of them.

Phone: Securus Technologies. Complete a Telephone Application -- submit electronically at docr.nd.gov/telephone-calls or mail the PDF to the Securus Digital Mail Center (not to the facility). Required since July 10, 2023. All calls after the initial 2 must be paid by resident or approved caller.

Visitation: Visitor application required. Photo ID for visitors 16 and older; birth certificate for under 16. Children under 18 must be with parent or legal guardian. Rules vary by facility -- confirm visit schedule with specific facility. Vending machine cash: JRCC/JRMU allow up to $20 (dollar bills and quarters in clear plastic bag); MRCC allows up to $10. Infant items listed by facility.

Mail: Direct to the specific facility (not a scanning center). NDSP: PO Box 5521, Bismarck, ND 58506-5521. JRCC/JRMU: 2521 Circle Drive, Jamestown, ND 58401. Confirm other facility addresses at docr.nd.gov/correspondence. Max 30 photos per envelope; max 10 non-personal pages per envelope. Return address name must match sender. Books/publications: new, from approved vendor or publisher.

Money: JPay at jpay.com. Online, by mail, or kiosk.

Inmate search: docr.nd.gov/resident-lookup.

DOCR: docr.nd.gov. Phone: 701-328-6390. Email: docr@nd.gov. HQ: 3100 Railroad Avenue, Bismarck, ND 58501.

Where this leaves you

North Dakota's system is small and centrally located by the standards of the states in this series. The distances are manageable for most families. The practical tasks -- Securus application, visitor application, JPay account -- are the same tasks families face everywhere, and they need to be started immediately after intake.

The two free calls upon arrival are the bridge. Make sure your person knows to use at least one of them to reach you.

The child in North Dakota waiting to hear from a parent in a DOCR facility needs what every child needs: proof that the parent is still there. That proof comes through the call, the letter, the visit. Each one matters.

I came home from 66 months to a family that was still whole. Both sides kept building it from wherever they were. Whatever North Dakota places between you and the person you love, the building is still possible.

Do the work. It is the whole thing.

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