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Relationships During Incarceration in Pennsylvania | InmateAid
The letter she writes and mails to the Pennsylvania state prison does not go to the prison. It goes to a PO Box in St. Petersburg, Florida.
In Pennsylvania, all general incoming correspondence -- letters, greeting cards, photos, children's drawings -- must be sent to the Pennsylvania DOC's third-party mail vendor, Smart Communications. The address is: Smart Communications/PA DOC / [Inmate Name]/[Inmate Number] / [State Correctional Institution] / PO Box 33028 / St. Petersburg, Florida 33733.
Smart Communications opens the envelope, scans the contents into an electronic document, and sends it back to the facility digitally. The facility mailroom prints it and delivers the printed copy to the inmate. The physical letter never reaches him. After 45 days, the original mail is destroyed.
Pennsylvania introduced this system in 2018 in response to drugs being introduced through mail. When the policy was announced, families of incarcerated Pennsylvanians called it "devastating." The reporting at the time noted what the change cost: the privacy and sentimentality of physical mail, which is often the least expensive and most-used form of communication between incarcerated people and their loved ones. The policy has been in place since then.
What arrives in his hands is a printed copy of what she sent. The handwriting is there -- on the print. The card she chose is there -- on the print. The drawing the kids made is there -- on the print. But it arrives as an 8.5x11 piece of paper, printed by the facility mailroom, not as the object she handled and sealed and mailed.
There are no experts here. We have experience. You measure your situation against ours and decide what is true for you.
The Wife and the Girlfriend Are Not the Same Person
It happens in Pennsylvania visiting rooms the same way it happens everywhere else -- at SCI Phoenix near Philadelphia, at SCI Fayette in southwestern Pennsylvania, at SCI Dallas in the Wyoming Valley, at SCI Cambridge Springs in Crawford County in the northwest corner of the state, at SCI Muncy and SCI Camp Hill, at the 21 male and 2 female facilities spread across a large and geographically varied state.
Some of the men inside are running two tracks. There is the woman who knows the real situation and the woman who knows the version he performs. The visiting list can include up to 20 names. He has been added, by him, to his telephone list. Both tracks can be on the Securus list. Both can be on the visiting list.
The one who knows the real situation is talking about the now. She is managing a Pennsylvania household -- in Philadelphia, in Pittsburgh, in Allentown, in Reading, in Scranton, in one of the smaller cities or the rural communities of central or western Pennsylvania -- and she is doing it without another adult. Pennsylvania is a large state with wide economic variation. She has this week and what this week costs.
The other one is talking about the future. She is holding onto a version of the relationship that has not been tested by ordinary Pennsylvania life.
He treats them differently. With the one who knows everything he is more transactional, more likely to bring up what he needs before asking how she is. With the other one he is more careful, still performing.
Some women reading this are the one who knows everything. Some are the other one. Some are finding out right now which one they are.
If you are not sure: does he know what is actually happening in your week, or does he only know what he needs from it? Are you the person he calls when something is good, or only when something is needed? Have you ever met anyone in his life who knew about you?
The answers are not comfortable. But they are information.
The Commissary Conversation
The phone call in Pennsylvania goes through Securus Technologies. The family member or friend sets up a Securus account. The inmate adds the number to his telephone list. FCC rate caps apply. Email through ViaPath/ConnectNetwork for message-type communication.
He is dependent. He cannot buy his own hygiene products or extra food or make his own calls without trust account funds. That dependency produces need that comes through the Securus call as asking and sometimes as pressure.
You are managing a Pennsylvania household. Philadelphia is expensive. Pittsburgh has its own costs. The rural communities of central and western Pennsylvania have their own economic pressures -- the post-industrial landscape of communities that once had steel and coal and now have limited pathways. Whatever the local reality, the bills do not pause.
Women ask about this on InmateAid's Ask the Inmate section more than almost any other relationship question. Whether he is using the Securus account she funds to call other women. Whether the money she sends is going where he says. Whether the need is about love or about logistics. The wondering sits underneath every call and does not go away until someone names it out loud.
Set a sustainable monthly number. Communicate it. Hold it. Consistency matters more than any single large deposit.
What the Smart Communications System Changes -- And What It Does Not
Since 2018, every piece of general mail sent to a Pennsylvania state prison has gone through Smart Communications first. The original letter -- the handwriting, the card, the physical object -- goes to a PO Box in St. Petersburg, Florida. It is scanned, printed at the facility, and delivered as an 8.5x11 copy.
The family members who spoke out when this policy was introduced called it devastating. The report that documented this practice wrote that it "strips away the privacy and the sentimentality of mail, which is often the least expensive and most-used form of communication between incarcerated people and their loved ones."
What has changed: the physical letter does not arrive as a physical letter. The original is destroyed after 45 days. What arrives is a print on 8.5x11 paper.
What has not changed: the letter still has to be written. It still has to be sent. He still receives the words and the image of what she drew and the print of the photograph. The content reaches him even if the object does not.
Practical implications for sending mail in Pennsylvania:
- Use the Smart Communications address. Do NOT mail to the facility directly for general correspondence.
- Address: Smart Communications/PA DOC / Inmate Name/Inmate Number / [SCI Name] / PO Box 33028 / St. Petersburg, Florida 33733
- Photos: up to 25 per mailing. After 45 days, originals destroyed.
- Write and format content no larger than 8.5x11 for best results.
- Publications (books, magazines) go to the Security Processing Center: Inmate Name, Inmate Number, 268 Bricker Road, Bellefonte, PA 16823-1667. NOT to Smart Communications.
- Official documents needing a signature: send directly to the facility.
The Classification Wait
When a man is sentenced and enters the Pennsylvania DOC, he goes through the diagnostic and classification center at SCI Camp Hill in Cumberland County. When a woman enters, she goes through SCI Muncy in Lycoming County. This classification process takes anywhere from weeks to months.
During classification, DOC officials do not discuss transfer plans to a home facility before they take place. The inmate is evaluated for security level, health care needs, psychological needs, and treatment programming. After evaluation, he is assigned to one of 21 male facilities. She is assigned to SCI Muncy or SCI Cambridge Springs in Crawford County.
For the woman on the outside: during the classification period, she may not know where he will end up. She cannot plan the visit. She cannot know the drive. She can write -- letters go through Smart Communications regardless of facility. She can fund the Securus account. She waits.
When he is transferred to his home facility, the inmate is responsible for notifying visitors of the change. DOC officials do not typically notify family directly.
What She Is Carrying That He Cannot See
When he went in, she absorbed everything he used to do. Every decision. Every bill. Every school meeting and sick kid and broken car and form that needs a signature. Every night the house is quiet in a way that is not peace.
Pennsylvania's communities range from Philadelphia's dense neighborhoods to Pittsburgh's post-industrial landscape to the rural communities of the northern tier and the central Appalachian region. In each of these places, the social world changes when the news is bad. Some people disappear. Family members who had reservations feel confirmed. What is left is her, managing children who are watching her to understand how they are supposed to feel about all of this.
Pennsylvania's facilities range from SCI Phoenix near Philadelphia (accessible for Philadelphia families) to SCI Cambridge Springs in Crawford County -- the far northwestern corner of the state, about 400 miles and more than 5 hours from Philadelphia. For a Philadelphia family with a partner at SCI Cambridge Springs, the visit is a two-day commitment.
The person inside experiences deprivation. What he often cannot see is that she is deprived too -- not of freedom but of partnership, of another adult, of someone to hand the weight to at the end of the day. The resentment that grows from that gap is real. It is not a sign the relationship is wrong. It is a sign both of them are under a pressure most couples never face.
The Doubt Is Normal
At some point, most women in this situation think about leaving.
Maybe it was the Securus call that turned into a fight about commissary. Maybe it was writing a letter knowing it would go to a PO Box in Florida and arrive as a printed page. Maybe it was the classification wait when she did not know what facility he would end up at or how far it would be. Maybe it was a Pennsylvania winter in Pittsburgh when the cold came in off the rivers and the heating bill was where it was and there was nobody to call.
The thought is not betrayal. It is what happens when a person carries more than they were built to carry alone.
Some women leave. Some should. The sentence can reveal things about the relationship that were already true. Leaving is not failure.
Some women stay and build something. Not the relationship they had before. Something different. Something tested in a way most couples never are. The ones who build something stopped pretending and had the real conversations.
We are not going to tell you to stay or go. We will tell you that the doubt is not proof the relationship is wrong. It is proof that you are paying attention.
The Social Isolation Nobody Warns You About
Pennsylvania's communities vary from Philadelphia's urban density to Pittsburgh's tight neighborhoods to the rural communities of the central and western parts of the state. In each of these places, the social world adjusts when the news is bad. Some people disappear. Some offer opinions. What you need -- one person who can sit with you in the reality of what this is without making it about themselves -- is harder to find than it should be.
Pennsylvania has legal aid organizations and reentry support groups concentrated in Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, and Harrisburg. The Pennsylvania Prison Society is one of the oldest prison advocacy organizations in the country. Legal Aid of Southeastern Pennsylvania and other regional organizations provide support. The PADOC family resources are at pa.gov/agencies/cor. If you can find one person who can hold your reality without judgment, find them and let them in.
Visiting in Pennsylvania: 20 on the List, Don't Let Visits Lapse, Arrive Early
Pennsylvania does not have conjugal visits. No private time at any PADOC facility.
**Visiting list**: Up to 20 names per 37 Pa. Code §93.3 (may be expanded if inmate can show need for more). Children under 18 may visit when accompanied by an approved adult; they need not be placed separately on the official list if accompanied by an approved adult.
**Unused visits**: Unused visits per week may not be carried over into the following week. Use them or lose them.
**Arrive early**: To ensure at least one hour of visiting time, arrive as early as possible. Arrival after a certain cutoff time may result in denial of the visit that day.
**Visiting rules**: Brief hug and kiss at beginning and end of visit per standard policy; check specific facility. No items brought in except approved items. Vehicles and lockers subject to search. Medical warning: microwaves may be in use in visiting rooms. An inmate may choose not to visit; DOC cannot force a visit if the inmate declines.
**PADOC facilities (selected)**:
- SCI Camp Hill (men's classification/diagnostic, Cumberland County): near Harrisburg
- SCI Muncy (women's classification, Lycoming County)
- SCI Phoenix: near Philadelphia area (replaced Graterford)
- SCI Fayette: LaBelle, Fayette County, southwestern PA
- SCI Dallas: Dallas, Luzerne County, northeastern PA
- SCI Cambridge Springs: Cambridge Springs, Crawford County (northwestern PA)
- Two facilities closing 2025: Centre County and Clearfield County
**Visiting scheduling**: Use the PA DOC inmate visitation system at pa.gov/services/cor/access-the-doc-inmate-visitation-system.
**PADOC contact**: 717-728-2573; ra-contactdoc@pa.gov; cor.pa.gov.
The Practical Layer: What Needs to Happen
When a partner is incarcerated in Pennsylvania, the practical tasks land on the person outside.
**Power of attorney.** Any legal or financial matter requiring his signature needs power of attorney. PADOC facilities have notary services. LawDepot offers templates. Do this early -- especially during the classification period before facility assignment.
**Pennsylvania marital property.** Pennsylvania is an equitable distribution state, not community property. Marital assets divided fairly but not necessarily equally. Understand what you are jointly responsible for.
**Joint finances.** Address shared accounts now. Joint debts continue.
**Benefits.** SNAP, Pennsylvania Medicaid (Medical Assistance), childcare assistance through CCIS, utility assistance through LIHEAP. Pennsylvania's benefit infrastructure is relatively developed. Use what exists.
**Securus account.** Set up at securustech.net. The inmate must add your number to his telephone list before calls can connect. FCC rate caps apply.
**Smart Communications mail address.** Write it down and use it every time. Do not mail letters to the facility. Smart Communications/PA DOC / Inmate Name/Inmate Number / [SCI Name] / PO Box 33028 / St. Petersburg, Florida 33733.
**Track your mail.** The PADOC website notes families can register to track mail along the way. Check pa.gov/agencies/cor/resources/for-family-and-friends/mail.html for current tracking instructions.
**The classification period.** During the weeks to months at SCI Camp Hill (men) or SCI Muncy (women), he will be evaluated and assigned to a home facility. Write during this period -- letters go through Smart Communications regardless. Fund the Securus account. Be patient with the uncertainty. When he is transferred, he is responsible for notifying you.
None of this is the romantic part of the relationship. All of it is the relationship.
For the Partner Inside: What You Cannot See
This section is for him.
She has been mailing letters to a PO Box in St. Petersburg, Florida, knowing they will arrive as printed pages. She has been funding the Securus account. She has been navigating the uncertainty of the classification period without knowing where he would end up.
When the transfer to the home facility happens: notify her immediately. She is planning around information that only comes from him.
The Securus call is the primary voice contact. Use it for connection. Ask about her week before asking about his books. The printed letter she sends deserves a response that acknowledges it was received and that it meant something.
And when the unused visits are on the table: do not let them lapse. She is organizing her week to visit and unused visits do not carry over.
When He Gets Out: The Part Nobody Wants to Say
The girlfriend who held onto the idea of him -- who mailed to the Florida PO Box and took the Securus calls and came to the Pennsylvania visiting room and filled the sessions with future-talk and hope -- is usually gone within the first month after release. The adjustment to ordinary Pennsylvania life, the job search with a record in Philadelphia or Pittsburgh or the rural interior, the way he is different from what she remembered -- it is harder than the visits suggested. Most of those relationships do not survive contact with Tuesday.
The woman who managed the Pennsylvania household alone, who wrote to Smart Communications in Florida and navigated the classification wait and drove to whichever facility he ended up at and came back and came back again, who told the truth about the money and stayed when staying was the hardest thing -- she already knows who he is under pressure. She has no illusions left. That absence of illusion is what makes rebuilding possible.
Reentry in Pennsylvania is hard. Philadelphia's housing market is expensive and felony records complicate finding housing. Pittsburgh has specific economic dynamics. Rural Pennsylvania has fewer pathways. Supervision conditions under parole are real constraints.
The girlfriend is hoping for the relationship she imagined. The woman who wrote through thick and thin is working with the one that actually exists.
FAQ
**Where do I mail letters to someone in a Pennsylvania state prison?** Not to the prison. All general correspondence goes to Smart Communications at: Smart Communications/PA DOC / Inmate Name/Inmate Number / [SCI Name] / PO Box 33028 / St. Petersburg, Florida 33733. Smart Communications scans and digitizes the mail; the facility prints and delivers it. Originals are retained for 45 days then destroyed. For publications (books, magazines), mail to the Security Processing Center: Inmate Name, Inmate Number, 268 Bricker Road, Bellefonte, PA 16823-1667. For official documents needing signatures, mail directly to the facility.
**What happens during the classification period?** All men go through diagnostic and classification at SCI Camp Hill; all women through SCI Muncy. This process takes weeks to months. During this time, DOC does not discuss transfer plans. When he is assigned to and transferred to a home facility, he is responsible for notifying you.
**Does Pennsylvania have conjugal visits?** No. Pennsylvania does not have conjugal visits at any PADOC facility.
**What is the 20-person visiting list limit?** Pennsylvania Code allows up to 20 names on the approved visiting list (37 Pa. Code §93.3). An inmate who can show they have more approved visitors than this limit may request additional names. Children under 18 do not need to be placed separately on the list if accompanied by an approved adult.
**What happens to unused visits?** Unused visits per week may not be carried over into the following week. Use them or lose them.
**Is it normal to think about leaving?** Yes. Almost every woman in this situation thinks about it at some point. The Smart Communications system and the classification uncertainty and the Securus calls all compound what is already a heavy load. The thought does not mean the relationship is over. If the thought comes with relief rather than grief, that is worth taking seriously.
**What happens to the relationship when he gets out?** Reentry in Pennsylvania is hard. Philadelphia housing is expensive with a felony record. Pittsburgh and rural Pennsylvania have their own specific challenges. Parole supervision is a real constraint. Relationships built on calls and printed letters and visits and future-talk often do not survive contact with ordinary life. The ones that have the best chance are built on honesty about who both people are under pressure.
[SPEC NOTE: Folder 16R8MTFxsOtqCIV4-WZb9Ys4mX8tc7YRR. Internal CTAs: Pennsylvania inmate search, send money, visitation guide PA DOC, Staying Connected hub, Pennsylvania reentry resources. SOURCING: pa.gov/agencies/cor/frequently-asked-questions (Securus for phone; inmate must add number to telephone list; all male inmates processed at SCI Camp Hill Cumberland County; all female at SCI Muncy Lycoming County; classification takes weeks to months; assigns security level and evaluates health/psychological/treatment needs; assigned to home facility -- 21 male or SCI Muncy or SCI Cambridge Springs; DOC officials do not discuss transfers before they take place; DOC understands and encourages communication; all mail to Smart Communications central processing not institution); pa.gov/agencies/cor/resources/for-family-and-friends/mail.html (Smart Communications/PA DOC / Inmate Name/Inmate Number / SCI / PO Box 33028 St Petersburg FL 33733; opens and scans mail into electronic document printed by facility mailroom delivered to inmate; photos up to 25 per mailing after 45 days destroyed; publications to SPC 268 Bricker Road Bellefonte PA 16823-1667; original mail retained 45 days then destroyed unless otherwise instructed; scanned mail sent to inmate locations six days per week; staff approve deny or forward mail; all types of general correspondence: letters greeting cards pictures children's drawings photos); pacapitalstar.com (Smart Communications in place since at least 2018; introduced to curb drug introduction through mail; families called it devastating; strips away privacy and sentimentality; Leah Wang report; Robert Pezzeca grievance about only receiving photocopy of envelope); 37 Pa. Code §93.3 (approved list up to 20 names or more if permitted; may be expanded if inmate shows more visitors; children under 18 need only be accompanied by approved adult not placed separately; visitors subject to search); PA DOC general visiting rules (unused visits per week not carried over; arrive early to ensure at least one hour; specific cutoff time must arrive before; microwaves may be in use warning; inmate may choose not to visit; do not force visit; brief hug and kiss beginning and end); Wikipedia PADOC (37,000 inmates; 21 male + 2 female facilities; HQ Hampden Township Cumberland County; Secretary Laurel R. Harry; cor.pa.gov; formed 1829); Pennsylvania Capital-Star September 2025 (PADOC closing two prisons Centre County and Clearfield County); no conjugal visits Pennsylvania (to verify); Pennsylvania equitable distribution not community property; PADOC 717-728-2573; ra-contactdoc@pa.gov; cor.pa.gov. NOTE for Poorwa: verify no conjugal visits Pennsylvania per cor.pa.gov; verify Smart Communications still mail vendor and PO Box 33028 St Petersburg FL 33733 current; verify 45-day retention and destruction policy current; verify SPC Bellefonte PA 16823-1667 for publications current; verify Securus still phone provider for PA DOC; verify 20-person list limit current per 37 Pa. Code §93.3; verify unused visits not carried over current; verify SCI Camp Hill still men's classification center; verify SCI Muncy still women's classification; verify SCI Cambridge Springs still women's facility; verify two prisons closing Centre County and Clearfield County current status; verify PADOC 717-728-2573 current; verify Pennsylvania equitable distribution; len/character check before publish.]