Reviewed on: April 04,2026
Commissary

Can You Send Balloons or Holiday Gifts to an Inmate in Jail?

I want to know are inmates allowed to celebrate holidays and if any balloons can be sent to them like on valentines or birthdays. My boyfriend is in Kent County Jail grand rapids, mi?

Balloons, decorations, and celebratory items cannot be sent to inmates at Kent County Jail or virtually any other correctional facility.
Ask The Inmate
Answered by a former federal inmate · 14+ years advising families
✓ Verified answer January 23,2014 · Commissary
1

Balloons, decorations, and celebratory items cannot be sent to inmates at Kent County Jail or virtually any other correctional facility. The mail room will not accept them, and anything outside of approved mail formats gets rejected and returned.

What you can send depends on the facility's specific mail policy, but greeting cards are generally permitted at most jails as long as they are standard flat cards without added embellishments like glitter, stickers, or attachments that could conceal contraband. Check with Kent County Jail specifically about their greeting card policy before sending.

If you want to do something meaningful for a birthday, Valentine's Day, or another occasion, the most practical options are things that address the reality of what life inside actually looks like. A magazine subscription gives your boyfriend something to look forward to regularly. A book he has been wanting to read is a gift that can occupy hours of time. Both can be sent through InmateAid or ordered directly through an approved vendor.

Boredom is one of the hardest parts of incarceration. Anything that gives an inmate something to read, learn, or think about does more for their wellbeing than any celebratory item could. That is where your energy and money are best spent.

0
Accepted Answer Date Created: January 23,2014
Was this helpful?

My situation is different — ask your own question.

Our advisors answer within 24 hours. Free, always. Former federal and state inmates with direct experience.

About this answer: This response was prepared by InmateAid’s editorial team in consultation with former inmates who have direct experience with the federal correctional system. InmateAid has served families of the incarcerated since 2012. This is general information only — not legal advice. Last reviewed April 2026.