There are a number of things in your post that raise concerns. Rushing to get married is troubling in our eyes and since you don't have along history, she is somewhere where hiding things from you is easy. You cannot find out how much money is on her books, who is on her visitation or calling list. Inmates become professional liars, conning loved ones into sending more and more money. Lots of things go on inside from drugs, to gambling, cigarettes and other vices. You should be relying on your instincts here. If there is suspicion and lack of trust during this ordeal, it's gonna get worse when she gets out. There are thousands and thousands of women out there that will treat you with respect and love you without all this mystery.
Accepted Answer Date Created: August 14,2015