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Son in Isolation for Gang Threats in Prison. How Do I Help

My son is an inmate at nottoway cc in burkeville va. He has been in seg/isolation 12 months out of 18 by choice because gang members threatened his life. He is afraid for his life. He has requested to be shipped to a level 5 just to get out of there. He is level 4 now. They are waiting for approval,but I don't know if he will be able to hang on in seg much longer. He stares for hours at a piece of paper and cannot function enough to draw or write most of the time. Please help me help him. I have voiced my concerns to the counselors and the warden, but to them he is worthless and they do not care. I can understand punishment but people that treat animals better than him are in jail for abuse.

Asked: April 22, 2013
Author: Tabatha
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What you are describing is one of the most difficult situations a family can face and your concern for your son is completely justified. Twelve months in segregation, even voluntary segregation taken for survival reasons, causes real and measurable psychological harm. The symptoms you are describing including staring for hours, inability to concentrate, and difficulty with basic tasks like writing are well documented effects of prolonged isolation.

The difficult reality of voluntary segregation

Your son chose to enter protective custody segregation because his life was threatened. That decision, while necessary for his physical safety, created a complicated situation for the facility. Once an inmate requests segregation for protective custody, the facility cannot simply release them back into general population without addressing the threat that put them there in the first place. The transfer to a different facility at a higher security level may actually be the best available path forward as it removes him from the specific gang threat environment entirely.

His mental health is the urgent concern

The psychological effects of prolonged isolation are serious. Your son needs mental health intervention now not as an afterthought. Every correctional facility is required to provide mental health services to inmates. Request in writing that he be evaluated by the facility's mental health staff immediately. Frame it as a medical request not a complaint. Document every request with dates and keep copies of everything.

If you believe his mental health needs are not being addressed you can contact the Virginia Department of Corrections Office of the Inspector General to file a formal concern. You can also contact a prisoner rights organization such as the Legal Aid Justice Center in Virginia which handles cases involving conditions of confinement.

What you can do from the outside right now

Reading is one of the most powerful tools available to someone in isolation. A book or magazine arriving at his cell gives his mind somewhere to go when the walls close in. Send him books, magazines, and newspapers through InmateAid. Educational correspondence courses give him structure and purpose during hours that would otherwise stretch into nothing.

Write to him consistently. Keep his mind connected to the outside world and to the life waiting for him. In isolation that connection is not just emotional support. It is psychological survival.

Keep advocating loudly and in writing. Counselors and wardens who are unresponsive to verbal concerns sometimes respond differently when requests are submitted in writing and begin creating a paper trail.

Your son is lucky to have someone fighting this hard for him. Keep going.

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Accepted Answer Date Created: April 23,2013

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