How does a guy with a double assault charge allow ANYONE to take from him without getting a little crazy?If he allows another inmate to take his stuff, then he can expect more of this to happen. We are not advocating that he get into fights, but the predators that he's locked up with will see this as weakness, him an easy mark and they will continue taking from him until there is nothing left to take. He can be
Read moreWhen someone who has always stayed in contact suddenly goes quiet, it is usually not because they do not want to talk. There are a number of common reasons this happens, especially early in a case. Here are the most likely possibilities: Intake or housing changes If he was recently moved, in classification, or placed in a different housing unit, phone access can be limited or temporarily shut off. Phone or account issues Even if money is
Read moreProbably not. But, without knowing all the facts it is just a guess. If he has violated three times, maybe he wants to be in there?
Read moreAs long as it takes for the inmate to correspond. Writing back is on the inmate, right?
Read moreYou should not assume you can just show up and be admitted, even though you were already approved before. Most facilities, including GEO facilities, re-screen visitors periodically or at check-in, and a recent arrest, even for something minor like a traffic warrant, can show up. Being out on bail means your case is still active, and that is what can trigger a denial at the door. Here is the smart way to handle it: Contact the facility first Call
Read moreYes, it is possible, but it depends entirely on the judge and coordination with the facility. A federal inmate at USP Lompoc will not be physically transported to a divorce trial. Courts do not require inmates to appear in person for civil matters like divorce unless there are very unusual circumstances. What usually happens instead is one of these options: Telephonic appearance If the judge wants to hear directly from the inmate, they can issue an order allowing the
Read moreHe needs to wake up and go see the counselor himself. If there is a hold, he HAS to be informed. We would be surprised if he didn't know already (and maybe doesn't want to tell you). The way it works is when you are so close to the door (8 months is short time), your counselor is meeting with you at least twice a month. They are gathering information to position the release, approve the next residence, etc. If
Read moreIt's hard to give the advice that we want to give versus the advice you want to hear. Inmates that go in and out of jail are not going to be easy to live with. The incarceration process definitely changes a person but the ones that are going to succeed after release are the ones that have made the conscious decision to change their ways, habits and people they associate with. Justin is not in that category yet. If you
Read moreThe inmate profiles found on InmateAid are set up by the member/users of the site. InmateAid does not monitor, update or verify these profiles unless asked to do so. Inmates do not have access to the Internet and therefore are not going to be on the InmateAid website. This website is for YOU to use to remain in contact with them. If you need assistance getting his profile set-up, send us his name and we will create it for you.
Read moreIt is not our place to determine whether you are a good girlfriend. You have to be at peace with your decision to stay. If you are going to ride it out until the end with himi, just know there are going to be some rough spots along the way. Be prepared and feel free to write back as often as possible over the coming months if you need questions answered.
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