Subject: Relationship issues
There must be some hard feelings there. Why did you wait FOUR years? Have you ever attempted to commnicate with him by mail? Letter writing might be the best way for both of you to being an exchange of feelings - about what went wrong between you and how can you fix it.
Subject: Inmate search
there are no juvenile inmate locators. juvenile offender's are protected by the privacy act for minors - the information is not public.
Subject: Prison discipline
It can range from several months in the SHU and lost privileges to catching another charge and having time added to their current sentence.
Subject: Parole, probation & supervised release
They can keep him for as long as they wabt, related to the original sentence. That is the downside of violating, going back and finishing out your remaining months.
Subject: Parole, probation & supervised release
A parole violation hold is one of the most frustrating situations a family member can face from the outside, because the system has almost no obligation to explain itself while it plays out.
Here is the reality. A parole hold carries no bond. There is no amount of money that gets someone out while a violation is being investigated or processed. Your friend sits until the system decides what happens next, and that timeline is entirely at the discretion of the...
Read moreSubject: Marriage in prison
Technically it may be possible, but practically speaking it is unlikely to get approved and probably not worth pursuing.
Inmate marriage requests go through the warden's office and require administrative approval. Facilities are more inclined to accommodate marriage requests when the inmate is facing a long sentence and the union serves a meaningful purpose in terms of legal rights, visitation, or financial matters. When someone is a few months from walking out the door on work release, the facility's response is...
Read moreSubject: General prison questions-terminology
Re-entry after tens years is going to take some time. He will most likely be in a halfway house for a few months to help with the adjustment. Everything is going to be brand new to him. Think about the changes in technology alone, he has a lot of catching up to do. You will have to be very patient. His internal clock, his routine for ten years is not going to fit right away - you're gonna have to...
Read moreSubject: Survive prison
of course, the loneliness is overwhelming sometimes. actually incarceration feels like you died but you are watching your life continue without you in it - seeing those on the outside go on with their lives and you are stuck in an ever-repeating day like the movieĀ "Groundhog Day". Nothing really changes inside except the calander one day at a time.
Subject: Release questions
There are legitimate programs that allow something close to this, but the specific scenario you are describing raises a separate question worth addressing directly.
Work release is the most common version of this arrangement. Inmates on work release leave the facility during the day for employment and return at night. It is a real program and it exists at many facilities as a transition step close to the end of a sentence. Weekend-only sentences are also possible in certain low-level cases...
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