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Subject: Sentencing questions

Probably nothing more than the county jail

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Subject: Relationship issues

Do not give up on someone just because they are going through a hard time. That instinct to stay connected is worth following. People in prison lose contact with friends faster than almost anything else in their lives. The stigma, the distance, the awkwardness of not knowing what to say, all of it causes people to quietly disappear from an incarcerated person's life one by one. By the time someone has been inside for a year, the circle of

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Subject: Inmateaid website questions

The mail service is permitted in every jail, prison and detention center.  We have suppressed letters and photos function where the facility is "postcards only".

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Subject: Marriage in prison

Getting married while one partner is incarcerated is possible but it requires working within the facility's rules, and those rules vary significantly from one institution to the next. The first and most important step is for your fiance to contact the chaplain directly. The chaplain is the person inside the facility who handles marriage requests and knows exactly what the process looks like at Arkansas Valley specifically. That conversation will tell you quickly whether marriages are permitted there, what

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Subject: Parole, probation & supervised release

The 60-90 days is a range. The offenders that comply perfectly with the programming get out way before the 90 days.

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Subject: Relationship issues

no, inmates are entitled to privacy too

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Subject: Send inmate mail

Your inmate receives a physical printed letter, not a digital message. That hard copy gets handed to them directly by staff after the mailroom opens and inspects it, which is standard procedure for all incoming mail at every correctional facility. On timing, the typical window is 2 to 3 business days from when InmateAid processes and sends the letter to when your inmate has it in their hands. That is faster than most people expect and reflects the fact

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Subject: All topics

The rules everywhere are that the inmate must initiate the call and you will be prompted as to whether you will allow the call to be connected. There are going to be charges connected to saying "yes". If you are going to speak with your inmate for more than once a week, you should look into getting a number from InmateAid to make the calls cheaper.

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Subject: Inmate phone calls

Either call the facility and speak with a case manager or counselor, they have the power to reinstate your line.

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Subject: Medical treatment

InmateAID Rule Number One: don't get sick in prison. The hardest part to get used to is that we consider to be appropriate and what they deem to be appropriate. Medical attention in prison is not great. You can certainly become an advocate by contacting the lower chains to see if you can get some empathy from a counselor or case manager. The next level would be the chaplain and then up to the Assistant Warden and then Warden. The problem with

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