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Subject: Prison rumors & jail scams

One sign would be asking you to put money on another inmate's account. Another would be asking you to give money to someone on the outside for unexplained reasons. What behavior or signals are making you suspicious?

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Subject: Marriage in prison

The inmate has to get permission first. Have him meet with his counselor to see if he is even eligible. There are very few facilities that allow marriage in prison.

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Subject: Marriage in prison

Yes, but it depends on the facility, the amount of time left in your loved one's sentence, their behavior in prison. 

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Subject: Inmate transfer

Probation Detention Centers are minimum security facilities for confining probation violators up to 6 months. Offenders may be sent directly to the center as a sentencing option or if they prove unable to fulfill their probation obligations in the community, may be sent to the detention center as a result of a revocation proceeding. Transfer requests are not normally granted because of the short-term commitment.

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Subject: Relationship issues

It is true that an inmate may file for divorce if they someone on the outside handling the actual court filing. The petition can be notarized in prison, and then that document must be filed with the family court in your jurisdiction. There is nothing to this that makes it "faster", but if you are sitting in prison, time is not a factor as you have plenty of it.

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Subject: Relationship issues

As an inmate, you treated like anyone else. What goes on the outside is the same as the inside. If you treat others with respect, you will, in turn, get respect. If you mouth off, you're gonna get your coconut cracked. 

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Subject: Relationship issues

Probably the hardest part is getting used to the fact that everyone you know on the outside (mostly wife and kids) are living their lives while you are locked up. You have absolutely no control over anything. It feels like you have died and are watching your loved ones live their life and you cannot participate. Your mind plays tricks with you, you lose faith in your relationship, etc.

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Subject: Law & court questions - legal terms

Most facilities do not provide a forum for inmates to participate in civil lawsuits. The best you could hope for is the inmate to submit answers to the plaintiff's interrogatories. The inmate may then have their written answers notarized there.

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Subject: Inmate phone calls

Depending on the type of facility, there would be a delay for the inmate in the form of an orientation period, for instance, county inmates can often call right away. Usually, this is about a week from the time they arrive. This pertains mostly to federal or state inmates,

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Subject: Medical treatment

Mental health services in correctional facilities vary enormously depending on whether the facility is federal, state, or county, and the resources available at that specific institution. The honest answer is that the quality ranges from genuinely adequate to severely lacking, and getting access to what exists often requires the inmate to advocate for themselves. Federal facilities generally have the most comprehensive mental health infrastructure of any correctional system. The Bureau of Prisons employs licensed psychologists and social workers at

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