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Sentence Reduction
How to Get Early Release From a Detention Center
This is a genuinely complex question and the answer depends on several factors including the jurisdiction, the nature of the offense, whether there was violence…

This is a genuinely complex question and the answer depends on several factors including the jurisdiction, the nature of the offense, whether there was violence involved, and whether your son pleaded guilty or went to trial. Federal versus state The pathway to early release looks completely different depending on which system he is in. Federal and state prisons operate under entirely separate rules and what works in one system often does not apply in the other. If he took a plea deal If your...
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Prison Food
Is the food in prison what it looks like in the movies, like scoops of slop?
The short answer is "generally no".…

The short answer is "generally no". But the food is far from gourmet. In the county jails and state prisons, the meals are simple and heavy on carbohydrates (breads, pasta) and lots of weird looking bologna sandwiches. In the federal system, the meals are on a national schedule, for instance Wednesday lunch is "burger day". All things considered, the food is bearable, BUT it's nice to have money in your commissary to be able to supplement the food an inmate...
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Prison Rumors & Jail Scams
My boyfriend wants to hire an inmate that does appeals. That sounds crazy, what should I tell him?
There are many good legal minds in prison but also so many desperate people, too.…

There are many good legal minds in prison but also so many desperate people, too. It's hard to give advice not knowing the strong suit of the legal aide and the price they are charging. Common sense and instinct tells me that in MOST cases, an inmate cannot work legal magic from inside a prison. Read the section Inmate Scams and learn about some of the unbelievable things that are being done to the unsuspecting.
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Survive Prison
Can I get my friend/family member transferred to a different prison?
Because space is limited, it is difficult to transfer inmates.…

Because space is limited, it is difficult to transfer inmates. Inmates are assigned to facilities based on their custody level, safety and security issues and available space. In addition, an inmate may have their own reasons for not wanting to be transferred. For example, he/she may be making progress in the programs they are currently enrolled in; or he/she may have concerns about being housed with certain people at another facility. Some inmates find it easier to separate from their...
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Survive Prison
How to Mentally and Physically Survive a Five Year Prison Sentence
The journey ahead seems impossible right now.…

The journey ahead seems impossible right now. That feeling is real and it is shared by almost everyone who has ever faced a significant sentence. But here is something worth knowing: not knowing is actually worse than being there. Once you arrive and begin to understand the environment, the human spirit finds a way to adapt and prevail. The most important decision you will make in the first weeks is who you are going to be inside. Everything that follows flows...
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Commissary
I want to order my son things on his commissary
We are working with Western Union to have ALL the prisons and jails available.…

We are working with Western Union to have ALL the prisons and jails available. Today, Talbot County only takes money orders mailed into their system but with this request and others, we will endeavor to get this rectified. You can still send books, newspapers and magazines through InmateAid and believe me, he will LOVE the reading materials you send him from the outside.
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
What is the worst thing about prison?
That is a very broad question that has many answers, but for me separation from my family was the worst, and mostly because you feel like you've died and are…

That is a very broad question that has many answers, but for me separation from my family was the worst, and mostly because you feel like you've died and are forced to watch the world go on without you. It's an impossible position that only time will change, the time left in your sentence.
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
What happens if you get sick in prison?
The federal system has "sick call" in the early morning where you see a nurse or PA.…

The federal system has "sick call" in the early morning where you see a nurse or PA. They do the absolute minimum for routine illness. If something major happens they take you to a nearby hospital. Depending upon your custody level, you are probably going there shackled. Don't get sick.
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Survive Prison
Do they have internet access in prison?
There is NO internet access allowed in prison except at the state level where the Kansas Department of Corrections allows monitored Internet use.…

There is NO internet access allowed in prison except at the state level where the Kansas Department of Corrections allows monitored Internet use. It is the only such area that does. At the federal level, there are email pilot programs in use that I used often, but there was no internet access. There are delays in the messaging and the charges were high but it was convenient.
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Survive Prison
What is the worst thing that happened to you while you were in prison?
The separation from family is terrible, but it's tougher on them to go on without you.…

The separation from family is terrible, but it's tougher on them to go on without you. But the worst thing that I had to deal with was the death of my mother. I was not there for others suffering, for her funeral nor was I able to feel closure.
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Commissary
Do they have kosher meals in prison?
Most prisons DO have kosher meals, especially at the federal level and if they don't you can contact the Aleph Institute in Miami Beach to arrange for them to…

Most prisons DO have kosher meals, especially at the federal level and if they don't you can contact the Aleph Institute in Miami Beach to arrange for them to get them set up. For the commissary food items, there are limitations to what a "kosher registered inmate" may select from.
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
How much money is spent by an inmate for telephone calls?
The telephone is a big profit center for prisons and jails and the services that run them.…

The telephone is a big profit center for prisons and jails and the services that run them. Local calls run about SIX cents per minute, long distance starts at 23 cent per minute and may exceed $1.00 per minute or more. The only way around these ridiculous rates is to use a Discount Service that specializes in prison phone calls. InmateAid has partnered with some credible ones, any that you choose will be cheaper than NOT using...
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Education & Vocational Training
How Are Prison College Programs Monitored for Cheating?
College coursework completed inside a correctional facility operates under a layer of oversight that makes cheating significantly more difficult than it would…

College coursework completed inside a correctional facility operates under a layer of oversight that makes cheating significantly more difficult than it would be in a traditional academic setting. The prison's education department serves as the intermediary between the inmate student and the college or university, and that relationship comes with direct supervision built in. Examinations are proctored by facility staff, meaning the inmate sits for the test in person under direct observation with no access to outside materials or assistance from...
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Sentence Reduction
How to Get a Sentence Reduction in State Prison Without RDAP
State prison systems do not offer RDAP, which is a federal Bureau of Prisons program.…

State prison systems do not offer RDAP, which is a federal Bureau of Prisons program. However, most state systems have their own sentence reduction pathways and in some cases they are more generous than the federal system. Good time credits The most universal sentence reduction tool in state prison is good time credit earned through good behavior. The range varies dramatically by state. Some states offer as much as 67% good time, meaning an inmate only serves one third of their sentence...
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Commissary
What items are available in the commissary? How often can you shop?
There are items that span from clothing and shoes, to food and drink, to over-the-counter medical supplies and personal hygiene items.…

There are items that span from clothing and shoes, to food and drink, to over-the-counter medical supplies and personal hygiene items. Typically there is one day designated for shopping. Remember that the commissary is a privilege and inmates may be subject to revocation for incident reports. For a more complete list, go to InmateAid's Commissary Information page.
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