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Furloughs
when is my inmate eligible for a weekend pass
There is no "rule" when an inmate might be offered a furlough.…

There is no "rule" when an inmate might be offered a furlough. They tend to get approved for a weekend pass to an approved home a few weeks before they are actually released
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Relationship Issues
how do I find out if my son is ok he will not write me.
try calling the facility and ask to speak to the chaplain…

try calling the facility and ask to speak to the chaplain
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Visitation
what can you do when you are denied visitation
When you are denied visitation the only way to get approved is from the warden.…

When you are denied visitation the only way to get approved is from the warden. You will need to begin by calling the warden's secretary and in the most polite and humble voice, ask them how you would go about the proper channels to have your visitation denial appeal heard.
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Medical Treatment
What does mru stand for
MRU stands for Medical Release Unit.…

MRU stands for Medical Release Unit. It is a designation used in some state correctional systems for a specialized housing unit within a prison that provides enhanced medical care for inmates with serious or chronic health conditions who require more intensive treatment than the general population medical unit can provide. Inmates assigned to an MRU are typically those dealing with significant medical needs including serious illness, post-surgical recovery, or conditions requiring regular nursing or physician oversight. The unit functions somewhat like...
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Visitation
Can a Mother With a Pending Charge Get Approved to Visit?
It is possible, and the mother-son relationship is one of the stronger arguments you can bring to a warden's office.…

It is possible, and the mother-son relationship is one of the stronger arguments you can bring to a warden's office. Wardens do grant waivers in situations like this, and family visitation, particularly from a parent, is something many administrators are willing to accommodate when the circumstances are reasonable. The nature of the pending charge is the biggest variable. A minor charge that poses no obvious threat to facility security or the inmate's wellbeing is going to be received very differently than...
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Marriage in Prison
Get Married to Inmate
Your inmate will need to speak with the prison chaplain to see if he is eligible to get married.…

Your inmate will need to speak with the prison chaplain to see if he is eligible to get married. Marriage in prison is not available to all inmates. If they are serving a long sentence you might be able to get permission, it is better to wait until they are released to have a really memoriable experience.
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Inmate Transfer
Can u please tell me when my husband will b transferd back to his county
we do not have that information.…

we do not have that information. they will not alert the outside when an inmate is set for transfer either, so that the safety and security of the officers transporting inmates remains at the highest level.
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Sentence Reduction
Has prop 57 taken affect and does an inmate always know their out date?
Prop 57 releases must go through an application process and get approval.…

Prop 57 releases must go through an application process and get approval. There are no "automatic releases" from Prop 57. The inmate must go to their counselor and ask if they are eligible. If they are eligible, the counselor knows the forms to submit. The process takes weeks.
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Sex Offenders
Can sex offenders have visit with their kids
It depends on the court written Judgement and Commitment Order.…

It depends on the court written Judgement and Commitment Order.  There is no general rule as there are varying degrees of offenses and it is entirely up to the sentencing judge and the facility as to how to handle the visitation. We think that unless there are grievous circumstances surrounding the crime, the court would like inmates to remain connected to their familes wherever possible.
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InmateAid Website questions
Do yal have inmate chat on line and or pin pal on line
Inmates are not allowed access to the internet, this chat idea sounds good but it's not available anywhere.…

Inmates are not allowed access to the internet, this chat idea sounds good but it's not available anywhere.
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Inmate Phone Calls
Does My Inmate Know I Set Up a New Prepaid Phone Account?
He will not know automatically.…

He will not know automatically. Getting the new number to him is something you have to do directly, and the sooner the better so there is no gap in communication. When you set up an InmateAid phone account, you receive a new number that your husband dials from the facility's phone system. That number does not appear anywhere he can see it on his own. You have to get it into his hands through a letter, a postcard, or if timing...
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Release Questions
How do I find out my husband release date for him
He definitely knows - the ONE thing for sure is that an inmate knows the exact date they re to be released, there is nothing more important to an inmate than…

He definitely knows - the ONE thing for sure is that an inmate knows the exact date they re to be released, there is nothing more important to an inmate than the day they are leaving. If the release date is "unknown", that means there are other forces in the way like potential new/old charges pending which keeps their release in question.
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Send Inmate Mail
Can an inmate to send me a letter through inmateaid ?
yes, people use the Letters from Inmates service which is especially beneficial when you want your own address kept private.…

yes, people use the Letters from Inmates service which is especially beneficial when you want your own address kept private. The inmates can use our address, we receive the mail on your behalf and notify you by email that it is there for your review and download.
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InmateAid Website questions
Is InmateAid Legit, Will My Letter Actually Get Delivered?
InmateAid is legitimate and has been operating since April 2012.…

InmateAid is legitimate and has been operating since April 2012. That is over a decade of processing letters, photos, postcards, and other services for families and loved ones of incarcerated people across the country. The platform was built by someone who served 66 months in federal prison and understood firsthand what inmates and their families actually need. On delivery, the service is reliable. Letters go out the same day if ordered before 5pm Eastern time, and your inmate typically has the...
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Relationship Issues
Should I Send a Letter to a Role Model Who Is in Jail?
Follow that instinct.…

Follow that instinct. It is the right one. People who end up incarcerated, even for a short stretch, often find themselves suddenly very alone. Friends pull back, professional relationships go quiet, and the public embarrassment of the situation can make someone feel like the people who admired them must now think less of them. Hearing from someone who genuinely looks up to them during that period carries more weight than you might expect. Your letter does not need to be complicated or...
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