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Bail & Bond Questions
how do i fine out if my boyfriend getting out of jail or getting a bond?
You might try calling the facility as ask to speak with the case manager, counselor or unit team secretary to get more information.…

You might try calling the facility as ask to speak with the case manager, counselor or unit team secretary to get more information.
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Visitation
How to Find Visitation Rules After an Inmate Is Transferred
When someone gets transferred to a new facility the visitation rules, scheduling process, and any waiting periods before visits are allowed vary enough from…

When someone gets transferred to a new facility the visitation rules, scheduling process, and any waiting periods before visits are allowed vary enough from jail to jail that the only reliable source is the facility itself. For DeKalb County Jail in Tennessee specifically, visitation schedules, days, and times are set by the facility and can change based on staffing, population, and facility operations. The best move is to call the jail directly and ask to speak with someone who can give...
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Inmate Phone Calls
Can you give me an estimate of the savings with my number?
An inmate calling with a 713 area code displaying means that the carrier for that jail is GTL (connectnetwork.com).…

An inmate calling with a 713 area code displaying means that the carrier for that jail is GTL (connectnetwork.com). Their routing servers are in Houston TX but it has no bearing on the call's locality. Since Chautauqua County Jail is also a 716 number, we would like to know your whole phone number to see if you are in a different rate center (this is what we suspect). If it is, then getting you a Mayville number should reduce the...
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Inmate Phone Calls
How does this work?
The phone service at the particular correctional facility is set up through bid process.…

The phone service at the particular correctional facility is set up through bid process. Whichever company has the contract for all inmate outbound calling and to tape record the calls. Therefore, you have to use them to receive calls. The choice is whether you pay then for a long distance call (to your number) or a local call (to the number we provide). Here is how it works... We get you a local line matching the rate center of town where the institution is located.Your inmate dials this local...
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Visitation
In vandalia DOC are visitors allowed to have dread locks?
You might be subject to a thorough search (the fear is that you might smuggle something in your hair) but if it's natural and you do not have any ill intention…

You might be subject to a thorough search (the fear is that you might smuggle something in your hair) but if it's natural and you do not have any ill intention you should not have a problem.
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Send Inmate Mail
How does a convict write you back on Inmateaid?
You can do either.…

You can do either. Inmates that have money on their inmate trust accounts can purchase stamps and envelopes at the weekly commissary. If they do not have money on their books, the prison will provide indigent inmates with all the materials necessary to send out mail to their loved ones. If your inmate writes to you directly, using your address, the cost of the mailing is a 49 cent stamp. Many of our members use the Inmate Response Mail service...
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Visitation
Is it true that I can go see my fiancee not being approved for a special visit?
You can visit as long as you are on the normal visitation list and there are no issues with your approval.…

You can visit as long as you are on the normal visitation list and there are no issues with your approval. Special visits are for people that travel a long distance and would like to request more visitation time due to the expense and limitations on the visitor. Most prison staff will approve a special visit if you are coming to the jail from 100 miles away or more.
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Inmate Services & Supplies
How To Send Money to Someone Just Locked Up in County Jail?
First, take a breath.…

First, take a breath. This is one of the most common questions families have in the first days after someone they love gets locked up and there is a clear path forward. Getting money on an inmate's books is one of the most direct and meaningful things you can do right away. Commissary funds give your loved one access to food to supplement meals, hygiene items, phone credits, and other basics that make daily life inside more manageable. It is a...
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Sentencing Questions
If arrested in one county on the way to surrender in another
One thing that doesn't make sense is if he was to be there on September 2, what is he doing driving around 10 days later "miles and miles away" instead of at…

One thing that doesn't make sense is if he was to be there on September 2, what is he doing driving around 10 days later "miles and miles away" instead of at the Wasatch Jail? It doesn't look good, like he had no intention of reporting. A 30 day sentence is not a big deal, but not reporting and then placing all the blame on a calamity of circumstances out of your control might turn it into something much bigger....
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Relationship Issues
Why do some inmates cheat on their ride or die women?
It's not that they are inmates, it that they are cheaters - period.…

It's not that they are inmates, it that they are cheaters - period. Jail has nothing to do with it. If you cannot trust them on the outside, there is nothing that will change while on the inside. Inmates are experts at getting women to send them money.
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
Can You Serve State Parole and Federal Probation Together?
Yes, it is legally possible to be on state parole and federal probation simultaneously.…

Yes, it is legally possible to be on state parole and federal probation simultaneously. The two supervision systems operate independently of each other and one does not automatically preclude the other. What it means in practice is that the person is answering to two separate supervising authorities at the same time. A state parole officer oversees compliance with state parole conditions, while a federal probation officer monitors the federal probation terms. The conditions imposed by each may overlap in some areas...
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Visitation
Can my inmate husband hold his newborn in visitation?
You will not have to put your newborn on the visitation list, but check with the staff before you go to be sure that you are not bringing something that they…

You will not have to put your newborn on the visitation list, but check with the staff before you go to be sure that you are not bringing something that they will not allow in the facility visitation. Most of the staff will have no problem with your husband holding the baby, just ask them nicely - it's always better to ask permission as it shows them respect.
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Send Inmate Mail
Can You Send Suggestive Photos or MagazinesThru InmateAid?
The rules around photos and magazines sent to inmates are set by the facility rather than by InmateAid, and those rules vary considerably from one institution…

The rules around photos and magazines sent to inmates are set by the facility rather than by InmateAid, and those rules vary considerably from one institution to another. Understanding both what the facility allows and what InmateAid can process helps set the right expectations. On the magazines, most correctional facilities draw a clear line at full nudity. Publications that contain explicit nudity are rejected at the mailroom across virtually every federal and state facility in the country. Some facilities allow magazines...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
what to expect in a tennessee jail for 48 hour DUI sentence?
No big deal, it'll be over before you know it.…

No big deal, it'll be over before you know it.
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Survive Prison
How can you deal with being in prison don't you go crazy?
Reading is the great escape.…

Reading is the great escape. Concentrating on things you can control, not worry about things you can't - it is where the focus must lie. Inmates need to get into a routine which will make their time go by smoothly. They need to make a goal list of things to accomplish with all of this time on their hands, to not just waste it playing cards and bullshitting. If they are inclined, anyone can come out better than when they went in.
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