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Furloughs
Can an Inmate Leave Prison for a Family Medical Emergency?
Early release in this situation is unlikely but not impossible, and a furlough is the more realistic avenue to pursue.…

Early release in this situation is unlikely but not impossible, and a furlough is the more realistic avenue to pursue. Some facilities will authorize a supervised furlough for an inmate to be present during a family medical emergency or death, but these are granted rarely and almost always under strict conditions. At medium custody, the bar is higher than it would be for a minimum-security inmate. When they do occur, the inmate is typically accompanied by two corrections officers for...
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Send Inmate Mail
What are the rules for what photos can be sent to an inmate
The photos must be no larger than 4" x 6" printed on photo paper, not Polaroid-style.…

The photos must be no larger than 4" x 6" printed on photo paper, not Polaroid-style. The images must not contain any depictions of gang symbols, explicit tattoos, drugs or drug paraphernalia and no nudity or sexual content. For women that want to send sexy pictures, you may pose in lingerie or a bikini just make sure that private parts are not exposed in any way.
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Sentencing Questions
How Can Someone Sentenced to Life Get Out in 17 Years?
There are two legitimate explanations, and one of them is far more common than people assume.…

There are two legitimate explanations, and one of them is far more common than people assume. The first and most likely is that the sentence was life with the possibility of parole, not life without. These are fundamentally different sentences even though both are labeled "life." A life-with-parole sentence means the person is eligible to appear before the parole board after serving a minimum number of years, often 15 to 25 depending on the state and the charge. If the board...
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Send Inmate Mail
Can I Really Write to R.Kelly?
R Kelly or Robert Sylvester Kelly is a federal inmate (09627-035) currently incarcerated at the Federal Correctional Institution, Medium I, Butner, North…

R Kelly or Robert Sylvester Kelly is a federal inmate (09627-035) currently incarcerated at the Federal Correctional Institution, Medium I, Butner, North Carolina. Click the link to write him
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Relationship Issues
Will my sexy pictures to my ex-husband get through to him?
Yes, they allow the pictures you describe…

Yes, they allow the pictures you describe
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Send Inmate Mail
How Do I Get My Number to an Inmate Who Cannot Call Me?
Send them a postcard or a letter with your phone number written clearly at the top.…

Send them a postcard or a letter with your phone number written clearly at the top. That is the fastest and most reliable method. Mail reaches inmates even when phone access is still being set up, and once they have your number in hand they can add it to their approved call list and reach out. InmateAid's postcard and letter service lets you send from your phone or computer from anywhere in the country, and delivery through the US Postal Service...
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
What Time for Probation Violation and a Failure to Appear?
This is a serious combination of problems and the outcome is entirely in the hands of the judge who originally sentenced him.…

This is a serious combination of problems and the outcome is entirely in the hands of the judge who originally sentenced him. That same judge gave him probation, then saw him violate it, put him on a GPS monitor as an additional condition, and then watched him miss a court date and generate a warrant on top of all that. Each of those steps represents a breakdown of the trust the court extended, and judges remember that history when a...
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Commissary
Shampoo soap etc how to send
Shampoo, soap, and other toiletries are provided to the inmates.…

Shampoo, soap, and other toiletries are provided to the inmates. Commissary has a selection of upgraded, or brand-name products for sale if the inmate has money on their books to shop. If you were going to help, put some money on their books.
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Pending Criminal Charges
What Happens When You Get a Second Gun Charge on Probation?
This is a difficult situation with serious exposure on multiple fronts.…

This is a difficult situation with serious exposure on multiple fronts. A new gun charge while on probation for a gun offense creates two simultaneous problems: a probation violation on the original UUW case and a new criminal prosecution on the second charge. If the new case is charged federally as a felon in possession of a firearm, the mandatory minimum is five years with no possibility of parole. Federal gun sentences are served at 85 percent and the mandatory minimums...
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Send Inmate Mail
Is it possible for the inmate to block your letters recieved from this site
An inmate can reject their incoming mail if they choose…

An inmate can reject their incoming mail if they choose
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Inmate Transfer
Why Is My Friend at a TDCJ Facility Far From Harris County?
Yes, absolutely.…

Yes, absolutely. The Texas Department of Criminal Justice operates facilities across the entire state and assigns inmates based on bed availability, classification level, programming availability, and population management, not based on proximity to the county where they were sentenced. Harris County sentencing does not mean Harris County placement. TDCJ will place an inmate wherever they have space and wherever the person's assessed custody level is served. Transfers also happen throughout a sentence for similar reasons. An inmate may start at one...
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Emergencies - Natural Disasters
How Long Does a Fire Camp Inmate Spend Fighting Wildfires?
During peak fire season, California inmate firefighters can be deployed for weeks at a time without returning to their base camp.…

During peak fire season, California inmate firefighters can be deployed for weeks at a time without returning to their base camp. The California Inmate Firefighter Program sends participants out with Cal Fire crews to actively fight wildfires, and when a major fire is burning, the deployment follows the fire, not a calendar. Shorter fire responses might last a few days, but during the heaviest part of fire season, when multiple large fires are burning simultaneously across the state, an inmate on...
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Prison Discipline
How Do You Refuse Pressure From Other Inmates Without Drama?
This is one of the most important social challenges inside, and how you handle it matters for the rest of your time there.…

This is one of the most important social challenges inside, and how you handle it matters for the rest of your time there. The answer is not a script; it is a positioning strategy that starts long before the ask happens. The inmates who rarely get approached with these requests are the ones who have made their character clear through consistent daily behavior. Keeping to yourself, being polite but not overly social with the wrong crowd, and establishing early that you...
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Inmate Transfer
Why Would an Inmate Go Straight to the SHU After a Transfer?
What you are describing is called a separatee designation.…

What you are describing is called a separatee designation. This is a classification the Bureau of Prisons and state prison systems use to manage inmates who have a known prior relationship with someone at a facility, whether that is a staff member, a co-defendant, or another inmate. The concern is that the relationship could compromise security, be exploited, or create an appearance of impropriety even if no actual wrongdoing has occurred. Separatee placement falls under administrative detention rather than disciplinary segregation....
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Relationship Issues
Can an Inmate Divorce a Spouse Who Has Disappeared?
California law allows for what is called service by publication when a spouse cannot be located.…

California law allows for what is called service by publication when a spouse cannot be located. This is the legal mechanism designed for exactly this situation, where the petitioner has made a genuine effort to find the respondent and been unable to. The process works like this. The inmate files the divorce petition with the Superior Court in the county where they were last living as a couple or where they are currently incarcerated. They then ask the court for permission...
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