Incarceration puts enormous strain on every type of relationship, marriages, partnerships, parent-child bonds, friendships, and family connections of all kinds. The distance, the communication barriers, the financial stress, and the emotional weight of the situation test relationships in ways that most couples and families are not prepared for. This section covers how to maintain a healthy relationship during incarceration, how to navigate jealousy, suspicion, and communication breakdowns when contact is limited to calls and letters, what the research shows about relationships that survive incarceration versus those that do not, how to support a partner or family member emotionally from the outside, and how to approach the changes that both people go through during a long sentence. The guidance here is honest about the difficulty while being realistic about what is possible with consistent effort and genuine commitment. See also our sections on Family Services, Visitation, and Marriage in Prison.
Subject: Relationship issues
We are not familiar with a legal filing costing $1, maybe it's true but it doesn't seem like you would get much help for one dollar. My advice would be to investigate the process in your county. You might be able to do this pro se (represent yourself), Google the information and write up the motion yourself. That would cost less than one dollar (although there is probably a fee to file with the county).
Subject: Relationship issues
You know what you need to do. Trust your internal voice. There are plenty of other opportunities for love out there in this big world, you just have to have the courage to go out and see.
Subject: Relationship issues
You cannot get any information from the prison regarding an inmate's visiting list, phone list or who puts money on their books. The inmate's privacy is protected completely. If you suspect that this is still happening, it probably is.
Subject: Relationship issues
At the risk of being too promotional for the merits of InmateAid, simply click on the Letters and Photos section write that inmate letting them know exactly how you feel. And keeping with the spirit of what we do, you can keep your location anonymous using our service, too.
Subject: Relationship issues
Inmates are generally all guilty of some crime. Lying is always part of the deal. If you are ride-or-die and he isn't, guess what? you need to find a new vehicle because this one isn't worth waiting for if he's doing this while locked up. Not all inmates have pen pals, some are actually doing their time without the drama. If he is not this type of guy, don't let your imagination get the best of you.
Subject: Relationship issues
Some do for sure. Depending on the amount of time in the sentence, the 19-month marker is about when the relationship breaks (my experience). Can it be repaired? Yes, it can but it'll take work and compromise on both parties.
Subject: Relationship issues
good question! smack him upside the head? but he's not listening and the only way to get his attention is to get out of the situation. If he's doing it when you're around he doesn't respect you enough to stop. Maybe he'll wake up if you walk.
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Absolutely not, there is zero interaction.
Subject: Relationship issues
Sounds like it's time to speak to a divorce lawyer
Subject: Relationship issues
It means he wants to look at you. That is a good thing, don't you think? InmateAid has a great service where you can take selfies (even a little sexy if you want just no nudity) and we turn them into beautiful 4" x 6" glossy photos and mail them for only $1.49.


