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How to get your number to an inmate quickly

My sons father is locked up and he gets out soon... He doesnt have my number but i would like too get the number too him without having to write a letter... Is there anyway i can get it too him? I dont want to add money to an account and than he doesnt call because it will be a waste of money...

Asked: September 02, 2016
Author: Desiree
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There really is no reliable way to get your number to him without sending it in writing.

Facilities do not allow staff to pass along personal messages like phone numbers. If you call, most will politely refuse. Occasionally someone might help, but you cannot count on that.

Your best and fastest options:

1. Send a letter (most reliable)

  • Write your number clearly
  • Include it more than once in the letter
  • Use InmateAid if you want it printed and mailed quickly

2. Use a mutual contact
If he has:

  • Family
  • Friends
  • Anyone already in touch with him

They can pass your number along.

3. Send a quick postcard or short note
This is often faster than waiting or hoping staff will help. It is a small cost and the only method that consistently works.

Why this is the reality:

  • Inmates cannot receive incoming calls
  • All communication must follow facility rules
  • Staff are not allowed to relay messages for security reasons

About adding money first:
You are right to hesitate. It is smart to wait until he has your number and can actually call.

Bottom line
Mail is the only dependable way to get your number to him. It is simple, cheap, and it works.

https://www.inmateaid.com/ask-the-inmate/how-to-get-your-number-to-an-inmate-quickly#answer
Accepted Answer Date Created: September 03,2016