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Inmate Transfer
What Can You Bring to the Travis County SMART Program?
The rules are pretty narrow on this one.…

The rules are pretty narrow on this one. When transferring from a county jail facility into the Travis County SMART program, you are allowed to bring two categories of items with you. The first is anything you purchased through the commissary during your time at the jail. Clothing, hygiene products, snacks, and other commissary items you bought with your own money are yours to take. The second category covers personal mail, legal documents, and any personal writings. Letters you received, legal paperwork...
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Pending Criminal Charges
Will an Old Misdemeanor Warrant Mean Jail Time?
There is no honest answer to that without knowing a lot more about the specifics, and anyone who tells you otherwise is guessing.…

There is no honest answer to that without knowing a lot more about the specifics, and anyone who tells you otherwise is guessing. A 10-year-old simple assault warrant is a misdemeanor, which is on the lower end of the spectrum. That works in your favor. But the outcome of turning yourself in depends on several things that vary case by case: the jurisdiction, the judge, the original circumstances of the assault, whether the victim is still involved or has any interest...
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Halfway House
Do People Hook Up Sexually at Coed Halfway Houses?
It happens, and it is probably more common than the staff would like to admit.…

It happens, and it is probably more common than the staff would like to admit. Halfway houses are unique in the reentry landscape because they are one of the only supervised settings where men and women actually share common spaces. In prison or jail, that is simply not a reality. The facilities are either fully segregated or contact between male and female populations is so tightly controlled it is essentially impossible without serious risk, including paying off staff, which does happen...
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InmateAid Website questions
Are you a real person?
yes - a former inmate who is happy to be answering questions, not from a jail cell…

yes - a former inmate who is happy to be answering questions, not from a jail cell
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Commissary
How Much Money Does an Inmate Need When They First Arrive?
It depends on your financial situation, but $300 is a solid starting point if you can manage it.…

It depends on your financial situation, but $300 is a solid starting point if you can manage it. When you first arrive, the facility issues necessities, but basic is the right word for it. The soap, shampoo, and toiletries they hand you are the bare minimum, and most inmates replace them with name-brand versions from the commissary as soon as they can. It is a small thing that makes a real difference in daily comfort. Beyond toiletries, there are a few items...
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Survive Prison
How scary and unnerving is your first time going to prison
there are no words to describe that first time getting locked up in the holding cell, then the transfer to the county jail, then the transfer to the federal…

there are no words to describe that first time getting locked up in the holding cell, then the transfer to the county jail, then the transfer to the federal prison... unnerving is an understatement
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Bail & Bond Questions
What does it mean for you to say released underneath your name
Released without a cash bond...…

Released without a cash bond... "on your recognizance" 
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Inmate Phone Calls
Can we use this account for calls with the Start program?
Yes, absolutely!…

Yes, absolutely!
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Pending Criminal Charges
How do I find out what he is being charged with
Contact the Clerk of the County Court where the charges were filed.…

Contact the Clerk of the County Court where the charges were filed. This is where the attorneys go for the detailed information about their client's charges
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Inmate Search
Will somebody anwers me back on my question
this forum is for former inmates to answer questions about their experiences firsthand.…

this forum is for former inmates to answer questions about their experiences firsthand. we don't find charges or bail amounts for individuals. you can try vinelink.com to assist in locating your inmate. the charges and bail can be found at the clerk of the court where the charges were originally filed
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Medical Treatment
How Does Prison Handle Inmates With Mental Illness?
The honest answer is that it depends heavily on the severity of the condition and how it manifests day to day.…

The honest answer is that it depends heavily on the severity of the condition and how it manifests day to day. First, some context worth having. Mental illness in the prison population is extraordinarily common. A significant portion of people who end up incarcerated are dealing with some form of untreated or under-treated mental health issue. That is not an excuse for the choices that led them there, but it is a reality of the environment. You are rarely the only...
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Inmate Phone Calls
How long after arriving to the prison before they can make a call?
usually about a week.…

usually about a week. there is an orientation that they must complete before the phones are open to them
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Relationship Issues
Are you interested in conjugal visits or phone sex?
yes and yes :)...…

yes and yes :)... but seriously, there are not many facilities that allow conjugal visits anymore. phone sex sounds great, but it's frustrating because you don't have much privacy at the phone bank... try a sexy letter and selfies  
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Inmate Search
Hi, I was really hoping I could talk to/ask someone about the status on my husband...?
You should call the facility and ask to speak to your husband's case manager or counselor.…

You should call the facility and ask to speak to your husband's case manager or counselor. They will have the most accurate and up-to-date information.
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Visitation
Can we take a picture with our significant other when visiting
Inmates can buy "picture tickets" at the commissary.…

Inmates can buy "picture tickets" at the commissary. They will take a picture in the visiting room and have it developed off-site. The inmate gets the color print in about a week.
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