Subject: Sex offenders
Yes, it definitely is an issue. It is not rampant, but it happens.
Subject: Sentencing questions
The sentencing date itself is public information and the easiest thing to track down. Contact the Clerk of the Court in the county where the charges were filed. That office maintains the court calendar and can tell you when the sentencing hearing is scheduled. Most clerk offices can be reached by phone, and many counties now have online case search portals where you can look up the case by name or case number and see upcoming hearing dates without making...
Read moreSubject: Visitation
He will have the option to remove you again if he is adamant about not seeing you right now. You might start by writing him a letter and seeing if you can work things out before resubmitting.
Subject: Family services
Yes, the mother cannot keep the baby in jail, BUT it is possible that she gets the baby when she gets out
Subject: Inmate phone calls
Yes, as long as you can wrap your head around the fact you are paying two companies to get the calls cheaper. We can save folks money in 70% of the situations. If you speak to your inmate more than once a week, this is probably for you.
Subject: Parole & probation
It depends on what the violation was and how pissed off the prosecutor and judge are at him for not taking the leniency he was granted serious enough not to mess up. We predict he will do some more time.
Subject: Treatment vs.incarceration
On good behavior and early release, the honest answer is not likely. A violation of probation sentence is handed down specifically because the original conditions of supervision were not met. The judge already extended leniency once when probation was granted instead of prison time, and the VOP sentence is the response to that trust being broken. Most judges structure VOP time to be served without the same good time credits that apply to standard sentences, though it varies by state...
Read moreSubject: Relationship issues
There is nothing to know. If a guard "gets with an inmate" it is RAPE, pure and simple. The guard becomes an inmate (for at least 5 years), so don't let your imagination get the best of you. Can it happen? Yes. Does it happen? Very rarely because the penalty is stiffer on the guard.
Subject: Inmate phone calls
InmateAid does not replace the prison phone company. Our Discount Phone Service works by using software to compare inmate call prices for all of the 25 or so prison phone carriers against all possible tariff scenarios. In 80% of the cases, a change in phone number will reduce the calls by up to 90% (usually 40-50%).
Some prisons use a system where the LOCAL line is the lowest price. So if you are not local, your calls will be 3-4 times more than a...
Read moreSubject: Relationship issues
Yes, and you are far from alone in dealing with it.
What you are experiencing is one of the most common relationship strains that comes with incarceration, and it has very little to do with anything you are actually doing. An inmate sitting in a cell 23 hours a day has one thing in unlimited supply: time. And time without distraction, without purpose, without control over anything in their environment, has a way of turning into anxiety that needs somewhere to...
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