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Send Inmate Mail
When I get a letter from an inmate on here do I have to pay to read it
Yes, $1.49…

Yes, $1.49
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Relationship Issues
How do you go about getting a divorce from an inmate?
Getting ready to divorce an inmate does not require you to complete any additional paperwork because of the incarceration.…

Getting ready to divorce an inmate does not require you to complete any additional paperwork because of the incarceration. Visit your lawyer, fill out the documents, and have them served at the prison. It is easier to serve someone in prison since it is much simpler to find the person. In some states, you may have to wait a certain amount of time before you file for divorce. For example, many states require legal separation for a year or two before...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
Are intimates treated equally , no matter the gender, skin and or race?
Inmates are generally treated equally but just like in the outside world there are prejudices that you cannot predict.…

Inmates are generally treated equally but just like in the outside world there are prejudices that you cannot predict. Prison is a microcosm of the real world.
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
My partner was violated for something he didn't do, what can I do?
For anyone reading this - Probation is a privilege, not to be taken lightly.…

For anyone reading this - Probation is a privilege, not to be taken lightly. We encourage the loved ones of anyone on probation to encourage your inmate to follow the rules and guidelines to the letter. Probation officers are looking to violate offenders for any violation. That is their job and they are graded on whether the offenders in their purview are keeping their nose celan. the PO looks bad if someone on their watch is committing other crimes. Their...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
What's the inmate population of dekalb county Illinois jail
Capacity is 64 inmates…

Capacity is 64 inmates
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ICE-Immigration Enforcement
How can ICE arrest someone if he has his papers by adoption?
If he is an immigrant that was adopted but did not apply for his citizenship, then he is not a citizen yet.…

If he is an immigrant that was adopted but did not apply for his citizenship, then he is not a citizen yet. You can't circumvent the citizenship requirements with an adoption or a marriage - you can apply for naturalization which allows you to become a citizen after completing all of the requirements. First, your child must satisfy the criteria set forth in the definition for an adopted “child” in the Immigration and Nationality Act (I.N.A.). These criteria apply to all...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
Can I send my fiance a chain with a cross on it?
Most facilities will allow a religious chain but we would advise asking the chaplain before sending it.…

Most facilities will allow a religious chain but we would advise asking the chaplain before sending it.
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Send Inmate Mail
Can inmates use Facebook?
Inmates do NOT have access to the Internet (unlless they have a smuggled smartphone which is highly illegal but more prevalent than you'd think), therefore they…

Inmates do NOT have access to the Internet (unlless they have a smuggled smartphone which is highly illegal but more prevalent than you'd think), therefore they don't have access to Facebook. BUT, there are small businesses popping up where an inmate may pay for a person on the outside to update their social media pages. Or it can be done without a fee if someone (maybe a family member) is willing to do it for you. Using Facebook through Trulincs...
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
Can you serve probation years in another state from where the offense occurred?
It is unlikely.…

It is unlikely. But there are instances where the probationer petitions the court and asks to have the terms served in another district. They might approve it if she offers to incur any extra cost of this transfer.
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Send Inmate Mail
Who pays the $1.49 when an inmate respond to my letter?
The user of the site.…

The user of the site. The inmate pays nothing
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
Will it help if the spouse speaks to the parole officer?
It can't hurt to speak the parole officer but you know that they have little sympathy or tolerance for the violator.…

It can't hurt to speak the parole officer but you know that they have little sympathy or tolerance for the violator. The POs role is to keep the integrity of the judicial process when rewarding an inmate with parole. If the inmate cannot keep their end of the deal - or worse catch another charge, they will get violated and must return to prison to do the remaining time left on their original sentence. They might even catch more time...
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
If a person violates their parole will be get revoked?
It is unlikely that there will be a second change.…

It is unlikely that there will be a second change. The "circumstance" would have to be VER compelling for the Board to even entertain the thought
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Inmate Phone Calls
Is there any way to make this prison call any cheaper on me?
The most logical way is the InmateAid Discount Telephone Service which will bring the price of those calls to about $2.00.…

The most logical way is the InmateAid Discount Telephone Service which will bring the price of those calls to about $2.00. For us to give you an accurate estimate we would need to know the name of the facility and your telephone number. We will do a rate center match with the phone company software are give you an honest quote.
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Inmate Phone Calls
What is the way to go about with calling for less than $8.00 a call thru Securus?
Contact us, we know for 100% certainty we can get the call down to $3.00.…

Contact us, we know for 100% certainty we can get the call down to $3.00. Before you sign up, send us your number and the name and state of the jail and we will give you an honest estimate of the savings
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Send Inmate Mail
Can I Write to Someone Just Arrested in County Jail?
The no-record result is almost certainly a timing issue, not a sign that something is wrong.…

The no-record result is almost certainly a timing issue, not a sign that something is wrong. When someone is freshly booked, jail databases can take anywhere from a few hours to a couple of days to update and become searchable. The news article confirming he is at Lehigh County Jail is reliable enough to go on in the meantime. Mail is one of the most protected things in the jail and prison world. It is treated as a fundamental right for...
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