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Send Inmate Mail
If a inmate has been moved, won't their inmate mail get transferred?
Usually not, there are some rare cases where the state system will forward it, but neither federal and county will.…

Usually not, there are some rare cases where the state system will forward it, but neither federal and county will. It gets returned to sender.
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Inmate Phone Calls
Will this work automtically
“Ask the Inmate” is not a direct communication link to a particular inmate, it is a question and answer forum between you and a former inmate who knows how…

“Ask the Inmate” is not a direct communication link to a particular inmate, it is a question and answer forum between you and a former inmate who knows how things work on the inside. To communicate, you can write letters or send photos - you will have to go to your My Account area and click on the Inmate Page and then click "Letters". You will be able to communicate to them through there.
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Send Inmate Mail
How long does it take to receive a letter using inmateaid?
We estimate that it takes 2-3 business days to make it to the jail.…

We estimate that it takes 2-3 business days to make it to the jail. Once there, the staff opens and reads each piece of mail and inspects it for contraband. Once they decide the mail is fit to be handed out at mail call, your inmate will receive it. Any delay that occurs at the facility is out of our control. We make no guarantees as to how long it will take as there are thousands of facilities and none of them do things the same...
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Education & Vocational Training
What Continuing Education Programs Are Available in Prison?
Educational programs vary by facility type and system, but most prisons and jails offer some level of continuing education.…

Educational programs vary by facility type and system, but most prisons and jails offer some level of continuing education. The GED is the most universally available program across federal, state, and county facilities. Inmates who do not have a high school diploma are often encouraged or in some cases required to work toward it. Beyond the GED, many facilities offer vocational training programs that lead to certifiable trade skills in areas like plumbing, electrical work, HVAC, carpentry, welding, culinary arts,...
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Inmate Phone Calls
Can I Change My Phone Number on InmateAid?
Yes, you can update your phone number at any time and there is no charge to make the change.…

Yes, you can update your phone number at any time and there is no charge to make the change. Life circumstances change and so do phone numbers. Whether you switched carriers, got a new number, or just need to update what is on file, the process is straightforward and does not cost anything. One thing worth keeping in mind is that the phone number your inmate calls you on may also need to be updated on their approved contact list through the...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
My boyfriend is in lock dowNot for refusing something. How long will he be there?
Without knowing all of the facts surrounding his administrative segregation, it could be a few days or a few months…

Without knowing all of the facts surrounding his administrative segregation, it could be a few days or a few months
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Visitation
Can you get a physical visitation instead of between glass?
might be true, where is the inmate incarcerated?…

might be true, where is the inmate incarcerated? depending on the level of custody determines the type of visitation
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Relationship Issues
Can You Check If an Inmate Has Money on Their Books?
Account balances inside a correctional facility are treated as private financial information, and there is no public database or lookup tool that gives outside…

Account balances inside a correctional facility are treated as private financial information, and there is no public database or lookup tool that gives outside parties access to what an inmate has on their books. The facility is not going to hand that information out freely and the phone provider or commissary system certainly will not. That said, there is one avenue worth trying. Some case managers and counselors will share that information if you call and ask nicely. It is entirely...
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Inmate Phone Calls
Can I still do the local number on a prepaid phone?
Yes, the local number we give you forwards to your pre-paid cell phone, the only person dialing this number will be your inmate calling you from the jail.…

Yes, the local number we give you forwards to your pre-paid cell phone, the only person dialing this number will be your inmate calling you from the jail. It will not affect your cellphone, your number or interfere with any incoming calls
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Send Inmate Mail
Can an Inmate Find Out My Address From an InmateAid Letter?
Your name appears on the envelope above InmateAid's address.…

Your name appears on the envelope above InmateAid's address. Your home address is never included. If you want the inmate to write you directly, add your address inside the letter. Otherwise they write back to InmateAid's address and the response is scanned into your account.
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Inmate Transfer
How long does it take for an inmate to be transferred?
it all depends on what stage of the process they are in; they might send the belongings home.…

it all depends on what stage of the process they are in; they might send the belongings home. there are three kinds of transfers, one - a request by the inmate, two - an administrative transfer as a step-down in custody level and the third - punitive where there is an increase in the custody level. whatever the conditions are in this case, they will NEVER disclose when the transfer is to take place for security precautions.
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Inmate Phone Calls
What is the best rate i can get for calls from Las Vegas?
The best that our service could do for you is cut the price of the calls down to just under $2.00 per call instead of what you are paying.…

The best that our service could do for you is cut the price of the calls down to just under $2.00 per call instead of what you are paying. You have to do the math and see if saving $2.00 per call is worth $20 per month. You would have to be speaking more than 10 times per month to cover the cost of the service.
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Commissary
Would an inmate at Delaware BWCI be notified if i send money, without notifying them?
Yes, usually their counselor will hand them a slip of paper with the transaction date and amount…

Yes, usually their counselor will hand them a slip of paper with the transaction date and amount
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Send Inmate Mail
Can I send a letter and put a word search in the letter as well? Or will they send back the letter?
You will not be able to send anything with the letter but photographs on 4" x 6" glossy paper - no Polaroids.…

You will not be able to send anything with the letter but photographs on 4" x 6" glossy paper - no Polaroids. You can send the Word Search from the publisher  - InmateAid has several to choose from in our magazine section. Let us know if you are interested in any of them, email us the title and we will send you a discount coupon for the purchase.
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Prison Violence
Is Prison Violence Really as Bad as Everyone Says?
The honest answer is that it depends on the facility, but for most people, the reality is nowhere near as bad as what television and movies would have you…

The honest answer is that it depends on the facility, but for most people, the reality is nowhere near as bad as what television and movies would have you believe. Scripted prison dramas are built around conflict and chaos because that makes for compelling entertainment. The daily reality for the vast majority of inmates is far more mundane. Most people inside are trying to do exactly what your husband should be focused on, getting through their time with as little drama...
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