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Law & Court Questions - Legal Terms
Is 1 count of a firearm and conspiracy bad?
On it's face it can be really bad.…

On it's face it can be really bad.  What was to related charges to the conspiracy? If the offender has a felony, the firearm is an automatic five years in federal Conspiracy to do what is a major issue in what might happen.
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Bail & Bond Questions
can judge reduce bond on illegal firearm and burglary
A $90,000 bond is substantial.…

A $90,000 bond is substantial.  If it was reduced, that is a sign that the charges are not deemed as serious or maybe the role in this conspiracy is minor.  We'd need more information to be more helpful.
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Relationship Issues
How inmates feel about being incarcerated
Most people inside would tell you the same thing, being out with family and friends is what they miss the most.…

Most people inside would tell you the same thing, being out with family and friends is what they miss the most. Incarceration takes away: Freedom to make your own choices Daily contact with loved ones Simple things like privacy, routine, and comfort Even in lower security settings, it is still a controlled environment where: Every movement is scheduled Communication is limited Personal connections become very important That is why letters, calls, and visits matter so much. They help maintain a connection to the outside world and remind someone of what...
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Sentencing Questions
how much time can you get for absconding?
They will start counting from the date they missed their check-in.…

They will start counting from the date they missed their check-in. The judge on the original case will decide what the punishment is, time could be added to the sentence, plus the new charge might make this a big mess
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Send Inmate Mail
Are sexually explicit letters allowed in prison mail
The mail room staff does potentially read every letter coming through, even at the camps but they are looking for crime-related content that relates to their…

The mail room staff does potentially read every letter coming through, even at the camps but they are looking for crime-related content that relates to their crime, escape or potential crimes they might know about or even direct through letters. Outside of those instances, you can write whatever you want in your letter to your inmate. Sexually explicit letters are especially gratifying for the inmate. They have no means of intimacy and your sexy words of encouragement are a great...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
Can I bring home cooked meal to prison
That would be fantastic, but it is a rare occurrence when the inmates are allowed home cooked meals brought into visitation.…

That would be fantastic, but it is a rare occurrence when the inmates are allowed home cooked meals brought into visitation. If they are in a minimum facility (a camp), there might be circumstances where this could be approved by the warden.
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Send Inmate Mail
can someone in jail send pictures?
Most federal inmates can buy "picture tickets" through the commissary ($1.00 - $1.50 each).…

Most federal inmates can buy "picture tickets" through the commissary ($1.00 - $1.50 each). Once or twice a month, the staff will take inmate's pictures for the very purpose of sharing them with their loved ones mailing them home.
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Send Inmate Mail
Does “sent” mean an inmate received your letter
No, he definitely did not get it.…

No, he definitely did not get it. Send us the inmate's name and new location, we will remail it for you at no charge.
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Send Inmate Mail
Can a inmate respond to my letter electronically? Will it come to my inmateaid account?
It comes to your inmateAID account, which is in a way electronic for you, look under - "Letters from Inmates"…

It comes to your inmateAID account, which is in a way electronic for you, look under - "Letters from Inmates"
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Send Inmate Mail
How InmateAid letters are delivered to inmates
This service is NOT an email, it is a postal letter delivered into the mail room of the facility.…

This service is NOT an email, it is a postal letter delivered into the mail room of the facility. Inmate do not have internet access. Our members find it reliable, convenience, safe and priced fairly for what we do. There is no proof of receipt other than your inmate will let you know they did. We have been mailing tens of thousands of letters and pictures every month to inmates in EVERY facility in the United States. It is rare when...
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Send Inmate Mail
can i send sexy pictures to boyfriend in jail
You can send as many sexy pictures as you want - they are definitely allowed in federal prison, but you cannot show any private parts (they will get rejected).…

You can send as many sexy pictures as you want - they are definitely allowed in federal prison, but you cannot show any private parts (they will get rejected). Pictures of yourself in a bikini or lingerie, inmates love them. But, remember that the pictures are reviewed and approved by staff members in the mail room - so keep it classy. Your boyfriend will appreciate these pictures and they go a long way towards keeping him thinking about you :)
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InmateAid Website questions
What is inmateaid? Does the Inmate sign up for this?
InmateAid was created for the online user, NOT the inmates as they are not supposed to have access to the Internet.…

InmateAid was created for the online user, NOT the inmates as they are not supposed to have access to the Internet. We know that smartphone use is rampant in the prison systems so we say "not supposed to". All of the ways that a loved one on the outside can make an inmate's sentence easier to ride out is on InmateAid. You can send money, write your inmate a real letter, add some photos (these are printed out on high gloss 4...
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Prison Food
inmate with special dietary needs
It is very unlikely that the facility will accommodate a request for that but he should ask the kitchen staff first to see if they even receive lemons - if they…

It is very unlikely that the facility will accommodate a request for that but he should ask the kitchen staff first to see if they even receive lemons - if they do he can make a deal with one of the inmates in the kitchen to get them for him. He of course will pay them in tuna packages for the service, which is the currency in prison.
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Release Questions
What day will you be released if your release date is on a weekend? Nothing shows updated.
Weekend release dates on that fall on Sunday might get an inmate out a day sooner if the facility does not do weekend releases …

Weekend release dates on that fall on Sunday might get an inmate out a day sooner if the facility does not do weekend releases 
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Visitation
Can i be on an approved phone list and different inmates visitation list?
Yes…

Yes
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