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It's hard to give the advice that we want to give versus the advice you want to hear. Inmates that go in and out of jail are not going to be easy to live with. The incarceration process definitely changes a person but the ones that are going to succeed after release are the ones that have made the conscious decision to change their ways, habits and people they associate with. Justin is not in that category yet. If youRead more
It is not our place to determine whether you are a good girlfriend. You have to be at peace with your decision to stay. If you are going to ride it out until the end with himi, just know there are going to be some rough spots along the way. Be prepared and feel free to write back as often as possible over the coming months if you need questions answered.Read more
Writing letters is sort of a lost art these days - it takes effort. If you were our girl, we would want to hear about everything you're doing. We would really want you to send us sexy pictures of yourself and even share sexy talk or sexy stories to keep our spirits high. We are not trying to be creepy, but he probably misses you and thinks about you all the time. Try relationship stuff where you can make himRead more
This happens more that people know. If it were me, I'd want to know so that in the two years I would be prepared for a life without you. If he cannot stay in your home, he needs to have a plan for where he will go when he's released. If you spring it on him when he's released and he is counting on living there it is going to be a mess. The stress would be overwhelming for himRead more
There are documented cases where the staff at an institution has violated federal law and have sexual contact with an inmate (mostly consensual). However, this never ends well. The inmate gets shipped to an inconvenient location with higher security and less privileges, the staff member will do federal prison time.Read more
You should follow your instincts. You know him better than most - our advice, "believe what you see with your own eyes, not what you hear as the explanation".Read more
You can serve him divorce papers. You can divorce him without him ever having to appear in the court proceedings. Find out his location and send him the papers. If he doesn't respond, then the judge will grant the divorce with nothing more. If he responds, then it'll take a few months before it is finalized. You'd be better having a lawyer help you navigate this so that it's done correctly.Read more
You probably already know the answer to your question. There are two kinds of men, loyal ones or ones that stray. If he is talking with another woman from "inside", this is who he is. It has probably happened more than this one episode. You have to decide if this is what you want from your partner. You have to decide what to do. We are not going to blame the mail room. Most of the mail isRead more
no, conjugal visits are very rare. there are only a few places in the country that still allow it.Read more
We would advise you to go with your feelings. You said, " I'm 100 sure of that should I continue keeping in contact with him", this is what you should do, but be mindful of the baby momma and the child. These two people will be in the picture for many, many years and you will have to accept it for your relationship with him to work. If you make that transition smooth, the rest will be a piece ofRead more