Yes, we have more than one person write. When you're locked up you have nothing but free time. To us, the more letters, the better. For calls, in federal inmates may only talk 300 minutes per month (400 minutes in Nov. and Dec.), state inmates can talk all day if they have the funds on their account. Many penpals will send money so that the inmate will call them. Some do, some don't We don't mean to play mind games,

You might be able to get away with a county visit if their vetting procedures are not as strict. We don't know the facility you are going to, so we cannot offer anything further. If you are not permitted to visit in the prison, why would they let you visit in the county jail? Unless they don't know why you are being denied, you could try and see what happens.

Your inmate is granted privacy regarding their visitation and telephone list as will as their inmate trust fund account. we would advise you to use your instinct regarding your relationship with this inmate. If you are concerned with who your inmate calls or who is on your inmate's visitation list you will lose control of your own situation. Your inmate is in prison, you are on the outside; if they are seeing or speaking with other women, you need to

The best thing I learned was that i never want to go back. I also learned about the things in my personality that led to getting in trouble in the first place. There are no short cuts in life. If you make a practice of taking short cuts to achieve something, there's going to be a time where it catches up. That is when you realize you've gone too far. Things have to change in your thinking before you get

Inmates are going to receive mail from whomever wants to take the time to write. I was married and yet an old girlfriend or two who I'd not spoken to in years reached out. I told my wife about it. I'm sure she didn't think it was innocent, but I was thrilled that they sent me magazines and books. It was kindness on their part, and it didn't lead to anything, I'm still happily married to my wife. If an

There could be circumstances where the phone might not be a privilege at the moment. You can always call the facility and ask to speak with the case manager or counselor, they will give you a straight answer why, if there is a reason or not.

Inmates cannot receive phone calls. The only way is to write them and open up the first communication with them.

Every inmate does their time differently. If he is staying silent now it is probably his defense mechanism. You are probably going to have to give him some time. Whatever happened that caused his incarceration, he is going through some emotional swings especially if this is recent. He will go through several stages before he is able to actually confront his demons. He might be blaming you (not your fault, don't let this upset you), but it is more

LOL, no way!! Are you kidding? There is a story every week about a CO going to prison for sex with an inmate. That is the lowest of the low. The CO has an inmate in a very compromising position, and they of power. To abuse that there isn't a sentence long enough for that kind of predator. The inmates LOVE an incarcerated former CO :)

No, they can block you from visitation and they can refuse to call you or write but you can add all the money you care to.