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Incarceration puts enormous strain on every type of relationship, marriages, partnerships, parent-child bonds, friendships, and family connections of all kinds. The distance, the communication barriers, the financial stress, and the emotional weight of the situation test relationships in ways that most couples and families are not prepared for. This section covers how to maintain a healthy relationship during incarceration, how to navigate jealousy, suspicion, and communication breakdowns when contact is limited to calls and letters, what the research shows about relationships that survive incarceration versus those that do not, how to support a partner or family member emotionally from the outside, and how to approach the changes that both people go through during a long sentence. The guidance here is honest about the difficulty while being realistic about what is possible with consistent effort and genuine commitment. See also our sections on Family Services, Visitation, and Marriage in Prison.

Subject: Relationship issues
It's called "super-optimism", where criminal thinking always expects to achieve success in any scheme they hatch They plan meticulously, gather resources, and when it is time to go hot, they proceed with a maddening sense of optimism that for a moment they feel invisible and untouchable. There are no negative thoughts, therefore, they are not thinking about the consequences. In the end, it is blind optimism where everyone else pays for the gamble that didn't pay off.
Subject: Relationship issues
You're asking a former inmate how to stop another inmate from contacting your girlfriend?? First, we don't snitch and second, you don't sound strong enough to keep her. The inmate already won.
Subject: Relationship issues
You can't get that information from the prison. The inmates have a right to privacy and their visitation list, phone list, commissary contributors are kept confidential. If you know she has in the past, your suspicions are probably correct.
Subject: Relationship issues
we know that the inmates love getting mail. if your inmate is new to the system, they might not be totally settled or maybe they are in their feelings at the moment. We would recommend that you continue writing if you are able.
Subject: Relationship issues
Not unless your inmate friend were to tell you. It is most likely some sort of incident report, BUT the privacy of inmates is their business on the inside and no one else's, just the same as it is for you on the outside,
Subject: Relationship issues
The question is why would you want to continue in a relationship that requires you to take a beating of any kind? Hopefully, they keep you away from him so that you can move on with your life. There are millions of guys that you could kind that won't ever think of hitting you. You should explore this new "freedom" and stop going back.
Subject: Relationship issues
If you are referring to YOU having sex with an inmate, that is not going to happen as there are no prisons that have conjugal visits any longer. BUT, it can happen - I was in a federal camp and there were two or three guys that had some arrangement with the guards that gave them a broom closet to have sex in the middle of visitation. If I didn't see it myself I would have doubted the story. I also...
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Subject: Relationship issues
We would say that 1/3 to 1/2 have engaged in some sex with other inmates, but less than 5% that would have it with the guards (that is a felony where the guard becomes an inmate)
Subject: Relationship issues
If the letter did not get sent back, he definitely got your letter. Since we don't know what is going on in the relationship, but we would encourage you to keep writing and see what happens. If he is a little angry, give it some time. I can tell you for a fact we love every piece of mail that comes in, even junk mail LOL.
Subject: Relationship issues
Why would he lie about this, in order to stay in an extra month? Sometimes the inmate release date changes slightly for a variety of reasons. If he is lying about this, it might say something about the relationship
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