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A visit is one of the most powerful experiences available to both an incarcerated person and their family. The physical presence of someone who loves you, even across a table or through glass, communicates something that letters and phone calls cannot fully replicate. But the visitation process involves rules, approvals, background checks, and scheduling requirements that can be confusing and discouraging for first-time visitors. This section covers how to apply to be on an inmate's visitor list, what the background check process looks like and what disqualifies a visitor, what to expect on your first visit including what to wear, what you can bring, and how the visit itself is conducted, how contact visits differ from non-contact visits, what children need to know before visiting an incarcerated parent, and how to make the most of limited visitation time. The guidance here is practical and comes from people who have been on both sides of the visitation table. See also our sections on Family Services, Relationship Issues, and Inmate Phone Calls.

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How do I go about getting off an inmate visitation list?
Why worry if you are on their visiting list?…

Why worry if you are on their visiting list? If you do not want to visit, don't go.
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Would I get automatically get denied to visit another federal inmate in a different state?
No, you can visit any inmate as long as you are approved and that the inmate requested you to be on their list.…

No, you can visit any inmate as long as you are approved and that the inmate requested you to be on their list.
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My kids father got moved from a prison to detention center is visiting still the same
No, it is going to be different and you are probably going to have to go through the approval process again…

No, it is going to be different and you are probably going to have to go through the approval process again
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Does Probation Stop You From Visiting Someone in Prison?
Being on probation disqualifies you from the standard visitor approval process, regardless of whether you are family or not.…

Being on probation disqualifies you from the standard visitor approval process, regardless of whether you are family or not. The background check that every visitor goes through flags active probation, parole, and felony convictions, and the result is an automatic denial through normal channels. The rule applies equally to family members and friends. A mother on probation faces the same barrier as a friend on probation. The relationship to the inmate does not change the underlying disqualification. That does not mean the...
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For visits...how much money can you take?
Depending on where the visit takes place, the general rule is that you may bring twenty dollars in coins and/or small bills and it must be brought in a clear,…

Depending on where the visit takes place, the general rule is that you may bring twenty dollars in coins and/or small bills and it must be brought in a clear, see-through purse/container. Some places allow you to bring a little more money, but the rules are still the same. Also, remember that this is to be used for the vending machines, you must make the purchase, don't let the inmate even touch the money whatsoever.
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who is allowed to visit? is it only family or can girlfriend come as well?
whoever is on the inmate's visitation list and gets approved by the staff is allowed to visit…

whoever is on the inmate's visitation list and gets approved by the staff is allowed to visit
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Do I Need to Reapply to Visit My Inmate in Arizona Prison?
Yes, visitor approvals do not transfer between state prison systems.…

Yes, visitor approvals do not transfer between state prison systems. Each state runs its own independent approval process, and being approved in California has no bearing on your eligibility to visit in Arizona. You start the application process from scratch when an inmate moves to a different state's correctional system. Arizona's visitation application process differs from California's in one notable way. The Arizona Department of Corrections charges a fee for the visitor application, which covers the cost of the background check...
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Must You Reapply to Visit When Your Inmate Is Transferred?
Whether you need to reapply depends on where your inmate is moving from and to, and the distinction matters practically.…

Whether you need to reapply depends on where your inmate is moving from and to, and the distinction matters practically. If your inmate moves within the same state correctional system, your visitor approval generally stays valid across facilities in that system. In Mississippi specifically, if your paperwork is on file with the Mississippi Department of Corrections and your inmate transfers from one MDOC facility to another, that approval travels with them. You do not need to start the process over every...
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do I have to pre register before visiting someone?
In some cases like most county jail, you only need an ID.…

In some cases like most county jail, you only need an ID. If you are going to state or federal inmate visitation you will need to fill out an application and gain approval before being allowed to visit. 
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do they check for warrants when you to visit at county jail
They might, every county is different.…

They might, every county is different. If you suspect that you have a warrant, we would not risk it. You could send someone you know to visit first and then ask them the procedure. Just a thought, why not clear up the warrant with a phone call and arrange to clear your name?
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Can an Inmate Hug and Kiss Any Visitor Not Just Their Spouse?
The physical contact rules in a prison visiting room apply equally to all approved visitors regardless of their relationship to the inmate.…

The physical contact rules in a prison visiting room apply equally to all approved visitors regardless of their relationship to the inmate. The standard policy at most correctional facilities permits one brief hug and kiss at the start of the visit and one at the end. That rule does not distinguish between a spouse, a family member, a friend, or any other approved visitor on the list. Correctional facilities are not in the business of policing the personal relationships or moral...
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Are Hugs and Kisses Allowed During Prison Visitation?
Yes, and this is standard policy at most correctional facilities across the country.…

Yes, and this is standard policy at most correctional facilities across the country. A brief hug and a light kiss are permitted when your inmate enters the visiting room at the start of the visit and again when the visit ends. That physical greeting and goodbye is considered a normal part of the visitation experience and corrections staff expect it. The key word is brief. A light kiss and a gentle hug that lasts a few seconds falls well within what...
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Does an inmate know when he has a video visitation?
yes, it is arranged by the correctional officers and coordinated via internal schedules for video visitations…

yes, it is arranged by the correctional officers and coordinated via internal schedules for video visitations
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How do they do visitation in Bland Correctional in VA DOC?
The Bland Correctional Center is a male reception and classification facility.…

The Bland Correctional Center is a male reception and classification facility. Its role is to intake offenders from the local jails and process them into the Department. It houses inmates classified to multiple levels of security. This is a state prison in the Virginia Department of Corrections, their statement on mail and visitation are as follows: The Department of Corrections encourages inmate correspondence that is directed to socially useful goals. Inmates shall be allowed to correspond with families, friends, attorneys, courts and...
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Can a Person With a Prior Felony Visit an Inmate in TDOC?
A felony conviction does not automatically end the conversation, but it does mean the standard approval process will not work for you.…

A felony conviction does not automatically end the conversation, but it does mean the standard approval process will not work for you. The background check that every visitor goes through flags felony records, and a standard application will come back denied. The path that exists for your situation runs through the warden's office. A special visitation waiver can be requested, and wardens do grant them in circumstances where the applicant makes a compelling case. A 2014 conviction with completed probation and...
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