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When can I visit after intake at diagnostic center?
When your fiancé first arrives at a reception and diagnostic center like Fulton, there is a short waiting period before visits are allowed.…

When your fiancé first arrives at a reception and diagnostic center like Fulton, there is a short waiting period before visits are allowed. What happens first: He must go through intake and orientation (A&O) This includes medical checks, classification, and interviews During this time, visitation is usually not permitted yet When visits become possible: After orientation is completed He will need to submit a visitor list that includes your name You may also need to complete and be approved on a visitation application Typical timeline: Usually 1 to 2 weeks, but it can vary Some facilities may...
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When is there visitations at Manson youth institution & is touching allowed?
Here is a link to the visitation times and dates for Manson Youth Institution: http://www.ct.gov/doc/lib/doc/pdf/visit/visitMYI.pdf…

Here is a link to the visitation times and dates for Manson Youth Institution: http://www.ct.gov/doc/lib/doc/pdf/visit/visitMYI.pdf
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Why Would an Inmate's Baby Mother Be Denied Visitation?
There is almost always a specific reason behind a visitation denial and it rarely comes down to the relationship itself.…

There is almost always a specific reason behind a visitation denial and it rarely comes down to the relationship itself. The mother of someone's child is not automatically disqualified from visiting, which means if a denial has happened, something else is driving it. The most common reasons visitation gets denied have nothing to do with the family connection and everything to do with background and history. A prior felony conviction is one of the most frequent disqualifiers across most correctional systems....
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Why Am I Turned Away if I Am on the Approved Visitor List?
Being told you are on the list but still not being allowed in is one of the most confusing and frustrating visitation experiences families deal with and there…

Being told you are on the list but still not being allowed in is one of the most confusing and frustrating visitation experiences families deal with and there are several specific explanations worth investigating. The most common reason is a scheduling or capacity issue. Many county facilities, including the house of corrections, operate visitation on a strict schedule with limited slots available per inmate per visiting period. Being on the approved list confirms eligibility but does not guarantee entry if the...
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Prison Violence
Do you get raped in County Jail, or does the threat only exist in prison?
Prison rape is real but it's not pervasive in every facility.…

Prison rape is real but it's not pervasive in every facility. Rape can happen to an inmate in a 24-hour DUI holding cell or in a maximum security prison. Surroundings and circumstances are different but the outcome of rape could happen in any one of the fifteen-thousand plus detention facilities in this country. 
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Visitation
Can ex-inmates visit an inmate in the same jail they were in
Not unless they are given permission by the warden…

Not unless they are given permission by the warden
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Visitation
Can I see my husband the first weekend he's there
It depends on where he is and what the level of custody the facility is.…

It depends on where he is and what the level of custody the facility is. If it is a low-medium-high prison, visitation will most likely not be available in the first week.
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If you are on parole can you still visit an inmate?
Parolees are normally not allowed visitation without permission from the warden.…

Parolees are normally not allowed visitation without permission from the warden. The out date calculation has everything to do with the wording in the Judgement and Commitment document signed by the judge. If there is wording about parole, or work release or nothing at all. If it is a normal state sentence, he will probably have to do 85% of the imposed sentence. That would be about 255 months or 21 1/4 years.
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Prison Violence
Is there a lot of violence or fighting in prison?
It depends on the level of custody the prison where your cousin is headed as the higher security has longer term sentences with inmates who have little to lose…

It depends on the level of custody the prison where your cousin is headed as the higher security has longer term sentences with inmates who have little to lose when they fight. However, the conduct inside a prison is nothing like what you see on television. But, fights could occur in any level prison or jail if there are conflicts. The same could happen on a street corner, a restaurant or a store. The likelihood of altercations will depend on the...
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Prison Discipline
What can I do about the excessive length of time in the SHU?
Unfortunately there is nothing anyone on the outside can do to intervene on prison matters.…

Unfortunately there is nothing anyone on the outside can do to intervene on prison matters. Discipline and punishment is meted out by the rules of the institution and all the inmates know them the minute they are first brought in. If there is a suspicion, the system has it's way of doing things and it will have to run it's course. He will have a disciplinary hearing where there are no lawyers speaking for him, he will have to convince the...
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Visitation
When is visitation and for how long and can you actually touch each other??? At Haysi jail.
Usually there is a hug and light kiss upon entering and exiting but no touching during the visit.…

Usually there is a hug and light kiss upon entering and exiting but no touching during the visit. The protocol is standard but there are some visiting room guards that are either less strict or over-the-top strict... be careful not to disrespect the ones that take themselves too seriously.
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Visitation
How to Find Visitation Rules After an Inmate Is Transferred
When someone gets transferred to a new facility the visitation rules, scheduling process, and any waiting periods before visits are allowed vary enough from…

When someone gets transferred to a new facility the visitation rules, scheduling process, and any waiting periods before visits are allowed vary enough from jail to jail that the only reliable source is the facility itself. For DeKalb County Jail in Tennessee specifically, visitation schedules, days, and times are set by the facility and can change based on staffing, population, and facility operations. The best move is to call the jail directly and ask to speak with someone who can give...
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In vandalia DOC are visitors allowed to have dread locks?
You might be subject to a thorough search (the fear is that you might smuggle something in your hair) but if it's natural and you do not have any ill intention…

You might be subject to a thorough search (the fear is that you might smuggle something in your hair) but if it's natural and you do not have any ill intention you should not have a problem.
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Is it true that I can go see my fiancee not being approved for a special visit?
You can visit as long as you are on the normal visitation list and there are no issues with your approval.…

You can visit as long as you are on the normal visitation list and there are no issues with your approval. Special visits are for people that travel a long distance and would like to request more visitation time due to the expense and limitations on the visitor. Most prison staff will approve a special visit if you are coming to the jail from 100 miles away or more.
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Visitation
Can my inmate husband hold his newborn in visitation?
You will not have to put your newborn on the visitation list, but check with the staff before you go to be sure that you are not bringing something that they…

You will not have to put your newborn on the visitation list, but check with the staff before you go to be sure that you are not bringing something that they will not allow in the facility visitation. Most of the staff will have no problem with your husband holding the baby, just ask them nicely - it's always better to ask permission as it shows them respect.
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