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Inmate Phone Calls
Is the discount phone service in the cullman county detention center.
Yes, the Discount Telephone Service would be beneficial if you have a long distance number that is not in the Cullman rate center.…

Yes, the Discount Telephone Service would be beneficial if you have a long distance number that is not in the Cullman rate center. The current carrier is Telmate and local lines will save you money.
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Survive Prison
My 19 year old son just arrived at Grady Co Jail. Is he in danger physically?
Not really.…

Not really. Most of the jailhouse violence you hear about is remote and isolated. It is not the norm. There are things of course that will change that quickly. If your son keeps to himself and internalizes his thoughts and actions he'll get out without as much as an argument.
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Send Books and Magazines
how long does it normally take for a magazine subscription to be delivered to prison
There are many publishers and they all have a slightly different response to this question.…

There are many publishers and they all have a slightly different response to this question. The rule of thumb is it takes about 8-10 weeks for the first issue to deliver. If you ordered from a subscription card inserted in a store magazine, the paragraph about delivery also suggests it "could take 8-10 weeks for the first magazine to arrive." The facilities will only allow magazines sent directly from the publisher. Our partners are honest and responsible.
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Marriage in Prison
I am trying to marry my bf but I heard that you could not get married in TDCJ any more
For now, that is the rule.…

For now, that is the rule. They are subject to change from administration to administration
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Survive Prison
Can everyone in prison see why each one of you are in there?
No.…

No. Inmates do not know the other inmates charges unless they speak about them. Our strong advice is to keep your crime to your self as well as your out-date. Inmates that are trouble-makers will have their people on the outside research what they can find on certain inmates. They will use the information if the crime is something they do not "approve of". 
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Furloughs
Can an inmate get out to see a dying father?
Maybe, depending on his crime, his in-prison behavior, the length of time left on his sentence.…

Maybe, depending on his crime, his in-prison behavior, the length of time left on his sentence. Furloughs are rare but if he's been a model inmate there is a chance they escort him to the hospital bedside for a couple of hours, but they are not going to "let him out early" for this reason.
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Release Questions
Upon release, how does my inmate get home if I can pick him up?
FL DOC offers transportation either with a bus ticket or some arrangement to get them to their freedom destination…

FL DOC offers transportation either with a bus ticket or some arrangement to get them to their freedom destination
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Visitation
What can we bring for a baby to visitation?
Visitation allows for babies to come along with a diaper bag that is subject to heavy inspection.…

Visitation allows for babies to come along with a diaper bag that is subject to heavy inspection. Bring milk, diapers and a change of clothes but don't try and sneak something in, or you'll end up with your loved one.
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InmateAid Website questions
Are the release dates correct on the inmateAID inmate profiles?
The inmate profiles are created by the members of the site.…

The inmate profiles are created by the members of the site. We do not monitor, verify or update the profiles unless requested by the member.
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Commissary
What is the price of a pair of sneakers in prison?
Sneakers are a real commodity in prison.…

Sneakers are a real commodity in prison. Commissary sells sneakers and other shoe "upgrades" like boots, etc. The charges range from $50-125. There is also a "secondary market" where inmates sell used shoes either from inmates that have upgraded theirs or when someone is released as they departing inmates oftentimes symbolically leave their shoes behind.
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Visitation
What's the visitation like for Milan FCI, MI?
Federal visitation is run very much by-the-book, and for an FCI Low facility you will have "contact" with your inmate.…

Federal visitation is run very much by-the-book, and for an FCI Low facility you will have "contact" with your inmate. Upon arrival you will enter and give your ID (you will have already gone through an approval process beforehand filling out a form your inmate mailed you). Once you are accepted for the visit you will proceed through a metal detector like you'd see at an airport. You may hug and kiss upon greeting and leaving but do not let...
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Prison Discipline
Does my husband who is in prison have access to the internet
No, absolutely not.…

No, absolutely not. However, there are inmates that have illegally obtained smartphones and can get access for a brief time. Inmates caught with a cell phone are subject to harsh disciplinary actions including loss of all privileges (commissary, telephone, visitation and possibly freedom because they will certainly spend the next 6-12 months in segregation in the SHU). There is a chance the inmate will catch another charge which could add upto another FIVE YEARS to their sentence, plus they are...
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Survive Prison
How is the Bedding and Living in Jail
the beds are thin and do not have much padding.…

the beds are thin and do not have much padding. there is nothing luxurious about the bedding. you might not get a pillow either. what i used to do was to collect several rolls of toilet paper and put them inside a towel to use as a pillow. there is heat is all facilities but many state prisons do NOT have air conditioning - especially bad in Florida, Texas, Louisiana and Arizona during the summer
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Inmate Phone Calls
Adelanto detention facility my phone got blocked where do I have to call to unblock it?
If you have a number from InmateAid, we will replace the number at no charge.…

If you have a number from InmateAid, we will replace the number at no charge. If this is from another service you will either have to contact the counselor at Adelanto and request the block removed.
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Inmate Phone Calls
How long does it usually take for a phone application to get approved
Background checks are usually pretty quick, it should not take longer than five business days.…

Background checks are usually pretty quick, it should not take longer than five business days. One thing to note, the facility notifies the inmate of the approvals, not the person applying. Therefore, you will have to hear back from your inmate to know when.
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