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Send Inmate Mail
Why Does My Inmate Receive Books but Not Letters and Photos?
The inconsistency you are describing, books getting through but letters and photos not, is a real pattern and it usually points to something specific about how…

The inconsistency you are describing, books getting through but letters and photos not, is a real pattern and it usually points to something specific about how the letters and photos are being sent rather than a blanket rejection of all mail. Books arrive from Amazon or a recognized publisher with a packing slip that the mailroom can verify as coming from a legitimate source. That format is trusted and moves through quickly. Letters and photos sent from a personal address go...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
How Long Does Orientation Take Before Contacting Family?
Most new inmates go through an orientation period before phone and visitation access is activated.…

Most new inmates go through an orientation period before phone and visitation access is activated. At Florida state facilities, that process typically takes about a week. During that window, the inmate is being classified, assigned to a housing unit, and briefed on facility rules and programs. Phone lists, approved visitor lists, and commissary accounts are all set up as part of that process. There is a way to potentially speed things up. Inmates who are proactive about communicating with their counselor...
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Relationship Issues
Can I Get a Copy of My Boyfriends Prison Call List?
No, and that information is not available to you through any official channel.…

No, and that information is not available to you through any official channel. Inmates retain privacy rights over their communications, their contact lists, their commissary spending, and who sends them money or mail. That privacy exists on paper and in practice. The facility will not hand you a copy of his call list at the front desk or anywhere else. Visitation staff, counselors, and administrative personnel are not authorized to share that information with outside parties, including partners and spouses. The...
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Survive Prison
What Is a Prison Store and How Does Running One Work?
Running a store is one of the most common informal economic activities inside any correctional facility, and it works exactly the way it sounds.…

Running a store is one of the most common informal economic activities inside any correctional facility, and it works exactly the way it sounds. An inmate with consistent commissary funds or strong outside support uses their purchasing power to build up an inventory of high-demand items from the commissary. Things like ramen packets, chips, coffee, candy, hygiene items, stamps, and whatever else moves quickly on the unit. They hold that inventory and sell it to other inmates between commissary days or...
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Release Questions
Can you get out on good behavior?
Most prison state systems and the federal (BOP) facilities give the inmates their best possible release date which includes good time.…

Most prison state systems and the federal (BOP) facilities give the inmates their best possible release date which includes good time. That is 15% off the sentence calculation. You cannot get more than 15% without snitching on someone. The good time credit is applied at the beginning to have something to hold over the inmate in their compliance with the rules. All you can do is lose what they've already given you.
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Relationship Issues
How do I find our phone records of my inmate while in jai?
Not going to happen.…

Not going to happen. The inmate is entitled to full privacy - their visitation list, call list, commissary money whereabouts, and what was spent are fully protected. 
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Furloughs
Can a Furlough Be Approved for an Out of State Family Visit?
The likelihood of this being approved is very low, and understanding why helps set realistic expectations before investing time in the request.…

The likelihood of this being approved is very low, and understanding why helps set realistic expectations before investing time in the request. Furloughs are already rare in most state systems. When they are granted, they come with strict conditions including a verified address where the inmate can be reached and monitored at all times, typically a permanent residence rather than a temporary one. A hotel or bed and breakfast in another state does not meet the stability and verifiability requirements that...
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Inmate Phone Calls
How Many Calls Can an Inmate Make in General Population?
Once an inmate is settled into general population and has no restrictions on their privileges, phone access is available on a regular daily basis.…

Once an inmate is settled into general population and has no restrictions on their privileges, phone access is available on a regular daily basis. Most state prisons provide phone access during designated hours, typically in the evenings and on weekends, though the specific schedule varies by facility and housing unit. There is no formal waiting period once someone is in general population, provided their call list is already established. The practical timeline depends on one key factor: whether the call list...
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Relationship Issues
My Partner Keeps Violating Parole. Is He Still Using Drugs?
You already know.…

You already know. That is the honest answer, and sitting with it is harder than asking the question. The pattern you are describing tells a clear story. Repeated parole violations, unexplained absences that last a full night, no contact until the next day, and a cycle of going in and coming back out. Each of those pieces on its own could have an innocent explanation. Together they form a picture that has one most likely cause, and you know what it...
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Pending Criminal Charges
How Do I Find Court Dates for an Inmate on a Federal Hold?
Federal cases are not as publicly accessible as state court cases, but the information is available if you know where to look.…

Federal cases are not as publicly accessible as state court cases, but the information is available if you know where to look. The starting point is knowing which federal district the case is in. Federal charges are filed in one of 94 federal judicial districts across the country, organized by geography. If your person was arrested in Miami, the case is in the Southern District of Florida. If it was in Chicago, it is in the Northern District of Illinois. Knowing...
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Relationship Issues
What is the steps to take a paternity test?
If you are asking how to get an inmate to take a paternity test.…

If you are asking how to get an inmate to take a paternity test. We assume you're asking because they won't do it voluntarily - you will have to get a court order that compels the facility to release the results of the DNA test for that person, that is done on all inmates.
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Send Inmate Mail
Can inmate send mail during lockdown
yes…

yes
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Prison Discipline
When a facility is under lockdown what are inmates allowed to do? Can they call us
Lockdown means that the compound is essentially "locked-down" from normal operations.…

Lockdown means that the compound is essentially "locked-down" from normal operations. There are no visits, no phone privileges, no commissary. Just 24/7; locked in their cells. It becomes a stressful environment for the days, weeks or sometimes months of "punishment" until it is lifted. Inmates do still receive mail.
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
What’s life like inside prison?
Life inside prison is like the movie "Groundhog Day".…

Life inside prison is like the movie "Groundhog Day". Every day is the exact same as the day before. Boredom dominates the menu. The only way to sanity is to get into a routine you can live with. You have a lot of time to think and getting into a routine takes you away from lamenting on your situation and more towards feeling as though you have a purpose and some hope for a better future.
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Relationship Issues
How Do I Find Out If My Girlfriend Has a Prison Wife?
The short answer is that there is no official channel that will confirm this for you, and pursuing it through back channels is unlikely to get you what you are…

The short answer is that there is no official channel that will confirm this for you, and pursuing it through back channels is unlikely to get you what you are actually looking for. Corrections officers and staff are not going to discuss the personal relationships of inmates with people on the outside. That falls squarely under the privacy protections that cover inmate conduct inside the facility, and any staff member who shared that kind of information would be breaking the rules...
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