How do I get my guy to relax when we don't speak every day?
How do I get my guy to relax when he doesn't get to speak with me everyday.?? He is so afraid he will lose me .. not the case at all ,I'm in for the long haul..
Cheryl Dains
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inmates will be suspicious of EVERYTHING you do or say...
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inmates will be suspicious of EVERYTHING you do or say... they think you're up to something even if you're not... we inmates have a lot of idle time to create "science fiction novels" in our heads... all you can do is be you... and stay 'close' the best way you know how to...
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Accepted Answer Date Created: January 10,2024
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