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Are Inmates on Prison Farm Duty Treated Humanely?
The dramatic version of prison farm labor that circulates online and gets portrayed on television does not reflect the day to day reality for most inmates…

The dramatic version of prison farm labor that circulates online and gets portrayed on television does not reflect the day to day reality for most inmates assigned to agricultural or outdoor work details, though the broader conversation about prison labor and fair compensation is a legitimate one worth understanding. Farm duty and outdoor work assignments are generally considered among the better details available inside. Inmates assigned to these jobs are outside, physically active, doing something that feels purposeful, and breaking the...
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Survive Prison
Do you have to join a prison gang to survive long sentences?
It depends largely on where you are doing your time.…

It depends largely on where you are doing your time. In some facilities and at certain security levels, gang affiliation does provide a form of protection that feels necessary to people who are new and uncertain about their surroundings. But it is not the rule and it is not the only way to survive a long stretch. The vast majority of inmates doing serious time never join a gang and never feel they had to. The decision to join is one...
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Visitation
Can I touch my visitor
In lower security prisons like minimum or low, there is a hug and a kiss when your come in and one when you leave but the contact must remain somewhat out of…

In lower security prisons like minimum or low, there is a hug and a kiss when your come in and one when you leave but the contact must remain somewhat out of the sight of the guards. Holding hands under the table will be okay, nothing more than that. The higher the security, the more likely there will be a piece of Plexiglas between you.
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Commissary
How much credit for days Working in the kitchen
In some state prisons, there are programs that offer up to one day of good time for two days working in the kitchen.…

In some state prisons, there are programs that offer up to one day of good time for two days working in the kitchen. You would have to speak with the institution's staff to get clarification on what good time credits pertain to them.
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Visitation
How Early Should You Arrive for a Prison Visit?
Arriving one to two hours before your scheduled visit time is the safe approach at most correctional facilities, including Allegheny Valley County Prison.…

Arriving one to two hours before your scheduled visit time is the safe approach at most correctional facilities, including Allegheny Valley County Prison. That window might seem excessive but the processing involved in getting cleared for a visit takes more time than most first-timers expect. You have to check in at the front, present your identification, get verified against the approved visitor list, pass through security screening, and wait for staff to be available to process you through. Each of those...
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Send Inmate Mail
does the staff read the mail and try to find where the mail is coming from ?
The staff absolutely opens and reads each piece of incoming mail.…

The staff absolutely opens and reads each piece of incoming mail. All inmates are prohibited from communicating with people associated with their case, with prosecution or judicial personnel (related to their trial), with other inmates from different institutions and with some felons (depending on the inmate's crime).
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Inmate Services & Supplies
Can Inmates Wear Their Own Underwear in Prison?
Most correctional facilities provide standard-issue clothing, including underwear as part of the basic uniform package every inmate receives upon intake.…

Most correctional facilities provide standard-issue clothing, including underwear as part of the basic uniform package every inmate receives upon intake. The quality is functional rather than comfortable but it is there and it gets replaced through the facility laundry system when items wear out. Beyond the standard issue, many facilities allow inmates to upgrade through the commissary. Better quality underwear, socks, and t-shirts are commonly available for purchase and most inmates who have funds on their books take advantage of that...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
How Do I Verify Which Jail Someone Is Actually In?
Start with VINELink.com, a free national victim and family notification service that provides real-time inmate location and custody status across most county…

Start with VINELink.com, a free national victim and family notification service that provides real-time inmate location and custody status across most county and state systems. If the county denies having them but an inmate number exists online, VINELink can help confirm where they are held.
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Inmate Care Packages
Can inmates in the SHU receive and send mail or care packs?
Mail access is one of the privileges that generally survives a SHU placement, even when most other privileges get pulled.…

Mail access is one of the privileges that generally survives a SHU placement, even when most other privileges get pulled. Inmates in the Special Housing Unit can typically both receive and send mail, though the process moves more slowly and with more scrutiny than in the general population. Incoming mail to a SHU inmate goes through the same mailroom screening process as any other incoming mail at the facility, but it may take longer to reach the inmate because delivery to...
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Send Books and Magazines
Can You Send Books to an Inmate Through Amazon?
Amazon works and is the standard solution for this exact requirement.…

Amazon works and is the standard solution for this exact requirement. You do not need to contact publishers directly or navigate any complicated ordering process. Here is why Amazon satisfies the publisher direct requirement. When correctional facilities require books to come directly from the publisher they are trying to ensure that the book has not passed through outside hands where it could be tampered with or used to conceal contraband. Amazon ships from their own warehouses and fulfillment centers, which facilities...
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Law & Court Questions - Legal Terms
What Is a Gag Order and How Does It Affect Inmate Mail?
A gag order is a legal directive issued by a judge that restricts what certain parties can say publicly about an ongoing case.…

A gag order is a legal directive issued by a judge that restricts what certain parties can say publicly about an ongoing case. The purpose is to protect the integrity of legal proceedings by limiting outside influence, preventing prejudicial publicity, and ensuring that a case gets decided on evidence presented in court rather than information circulating in the media or public sphere. Gag orders are typically directed at specific parties involved in a case, which can include the defendant, attorneys on...
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Send Inmate Money
Are there more ways than Western Union to send inmate money?
If your inmate's facility allows for other competing services, we would recommend JPay.com, they are the largest and most reliable of all the inmate money…

If your inmate's facility allows for other competing services, we would recommend JPay.com, they are the largest and most reliable of all the inmate money transfer companies. If a money order is an option you could always go to nearby Western Union depot and mail it in.
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Send Inmate Mail
address to write an inmate letter in Minden,NV Douglas Co?
Inmate Name and ID number Douglas County Jail - Minden PO Box 418 Minden, NV 89423…

Inmate Name and ID number Douglas County Jail - Minden PO Box 418 Minden, NV 89423
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Visitation
What Physical Contact Is Allowed in Prison Visitation Photos
What is permitted in visitation photos varies by facility and in practice often comes down to which officer is working that day and how strictly they apply the…

What is permitted in visitation photos varies by facility and in practice often comes down to which officer is working that day and how strictly they apply the rules. At most facilities, arms around each other, a brief kiss, and a parent kissing a child on the cheek are generally tolerated and considered acceptable within the spirit of the visit. These are the kinds of normal family moments that most staff recognize as reasonable and do not interfere with. The security level...
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Relationship Issues
Are we considered married if the license isnt signed?
You would have to check with the custodian of the county records to see if they have you registered as married.…

You would have to check with the custodian of the county records to see if they have you registered as married.
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