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Can you send clothes before inmate arrives
In most cases, you cannot send clothing to a prison before an inmate arrives, and even after arrival, facilities usually do not allow clothing shipments from…

In most cases, you cannot send clothing to a prison before an inmate arrives, and even after arrival, facilities usually do not allow clothing shipments from family. Prisons issue standard clothing to every inmate, so your son will be provided with what he needs when he gets there. Some facilities also allow inmates to purchase additional items like sweatpants, t-shirts, or shoes through commissary, which are approved for use inside the facility. Sending clothing ahead of time is typically not allowed because: Facilities...
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Why are inmate books delayed after delivery
At Lansing Correctional Facility, it is normal for there to be a delay between when books arrive and when the inmate actually receives them.…

At Lansing Correctional Facility, it is normal for there to be a delay between when books arrive and when the inmate actually receives them. You do not need special permission before sending books, as long as they are sent directly from an approved vendor like Amazon or a publisher. That part sounds like you did correctly. Once the books arrive at the prison, they go through the mailroom where staff: Open and inspect them for contraband Verify they meet facility rules Process them for delivery Even if they arrived...
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What do inmates wear when released from jail
At Southern Nevada Detention Center, inmates are typically released in one of a few standard ways when it comes to clothing.…

At Southern Nevada Detention Center, inmates are typically released in one of a few standard ways when it comes to clothing. If your dad was booked in with his own clothes and the facility kept them in storage, those items are usually returned to him at release so he can wear them home. This is the most common outcome. If his personal clothing is not available, the facility will provide a basic set of release clothes. In some cases, inmates may also have...
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Does a prison transfer mean anything good
A transfer after sentencing usually does not signal anything positive or negative by itself.…

A transfer after sentencing usually does not signal anything positive or negative by itself. In most cases, it simply means your husband is being moved from a temporary or intake facility to the prison where he will serve his sentence. After someone is sentenced, the system begins placing them based on factors like custody level, bed space, program availability, and medical or classification needs. Transfers are a normal part of that process and happen to almost everyone at some point. Based on...
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How long before a preliminary hearing in jail
In most cases, a preliminary hearing is supposed to happen fairly quickly after an arrest, often within days or a few weeks depending on the state.…

In most cases, a preliminary hearing is supposed to happen fairly quickly after an arrest, often within days or a few weeks depending on the state. Six months without a preliminary hearing is not typical, but it does happen under certain circumstances. The Constitution guarantees the right to a speedy trial, but that right can be affected by several factors that slow the process down. Common reasons for delays include: Continuances requested by the defense or prosecution Multiple co-defendants, which can complicate scheduling Ongoing...
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How do I update/change my husbands inmate # ? Marshals assigned him a new one
You may log onto your account using your User email and password.…

You may log onto your account using your User email and password. In the left hand column click on Inmate Profiles. Then click on the Profile link. Scroll down to the bottom that says “ID Number” and make your change. When you are satisfied with your result, enter Save and you are done!
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Arrest Record Search
How to Find Someone When You Only Know Their First Name
Finding someone when you only know their first name and a general location is challenging through a traditional inmate database search.…

Finding someone when you only know their first name and a general location is challenging through a traditional inmate database search. Our inmate search requires at minimum a last name to return accurate results. However that does not mean your search has to end here. A people search tool can work with partial information in ways that an inmate database cannot. If you have any additional details beyond a first name, even approximate age, physical description, the city or parish they were...
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Can inmates receive magazines like Maxim, King and Show?
Yes they can, don't forget to add Curves to that list.…

Yes they can, don't forget to add Curves to that list. These are probably the most popular among inmates. InmateAid has a great section called "Send Magazines" with these very titles (and 100s more) to click on and send them directly to your inmate at discount prices.
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Do you guys get tested for std
Inmates are tested for tuberculosis every year but are NOT tested for sexually transmitted diseases.…

Inmates are tested for tuberculosis every year but are NOT tested for sexually transmitted diseases. There are provisions of disclosure where the admittance staff will interview the inmate and ask if they have HIV or hepatitis so as to know if the inmate will need special medical treatment.
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What does it mean to "follow" an inmate on this site?
Friends and family members can follow an inmate to stay connected via posts by the manager of the account.…

Friends and family members can follow an inmate to stay connected via posts by the manager of the account. Visitation updates, pictures and wish list items are posted for the benefit of the people who wish to help the inmate they follow.
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How to find my inmate’s release date
In many cases, an inmate’s release date is public information, but how easy it is to find depends on where they are incarcerated.…

In many cases, an inmate’s release date is public information, but how easy it is to find depends on where they are incarcerated. For federal inmates, release dates are usually available through the Federal Bureau of Prisons inmate locator, which is the most consistent and reliable source. For state and county inmates, it varies. Some states provide release dates through online databases or systems like VineLink, while others may only show limited information such as custody status. County jails are the least consistent, and many...
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How do I send books? How do I add money to the account so he can write back?
You may send books through the Amazon links located in the Send Books section.…

You may send books through the Amazon links located in the Send Books section. There is even a search function to look for the type of book or the author. Sending money is easy through Western Union - simply click on the Send Inmate Money page where there are complete step-by-step instructions. Once an inmate has money in their account they can buy stamps and writing utensils to write you back.
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Are the inmates allowed to smoke cigarettes?
Cigarette smoking is banned in most prisons and jails.…

Cigarette smoking is banned in most prisons and jails. There are still some county jails that allow it and even have it on the commissary list but they are few and far between. That is not to say there are no cigarettes in prison. Cigarettes are a big "black market" item and command a huge price if you must smoke. Depending upon the custody level, one cigarette could cost between two dollars and twenty dollars EACH.
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How do i know if the inmate read the letter i sent?
InmateAid sends letters daily, you get notification in your member account the moment they are mailed.…

InmateAid sends letters daily, you get notification in your member account the moment they are mailed. The only way you will truly know is if they respond back or call you on the telephone and acknowledge the receipt of your letter. Give it a try, our members love the convenience of the service and for the inmates - there's nothing better than hearing your name at mail call.
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How to share an inmate profile with family
Sharing your brother’s InmateAid profile with family is simple, but each person will need to set up their own account first.…

Sharing your brother’s InmateAid profile with family is simple, but each person will need to set up their own account first. This keeps communication secure and ensures everyone can manage their own letters, photos, and services. Once a family member creates and confirms their account, they can search for your brother by name using the InmateAid inmate search. When they find his profile, they just need to click “Follow Inmate” on his page. That adds them to his circle, giving them...
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