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Relationship Issues
How does my boyfriend get a divorce from in prison?
It is not the easiest thing for an inmate to do unless their spouse files on the outside first.…

It is not the easiest thing for an inmate to do unless their spouse files on the outside first. Your inmate would need a lawyer to handle the court filings. For the inmate to do this, he would need to be able to pay for the legal service of filing since he cannot do it for himself. The institution will NOT do this for him, they do not look at this issue seriously.
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Release Questions
Is the Release Date Final After a Parole Violation?
No.…

No. When someone is revoked back to custody for a parole violation, the system makes clear that this is the consequence for breaking the conditions they were given. The release date they hand down is the date. Good behavior is expected at that point, not rewarded with early release on top of the revocation. Parole violations are taken seriously precisely because the person already had the benefit of being out. Going back in for it is a direct consequence of not...
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Money Transfer
How Will My Inmate Know When Phone Funds Have Been Added?
In most cases, he will not be notified automatically.…

In most cases, he will not be notified automatically. Phone and commissary deposits do not come with an alert that reaches the inmate directly. The money appears in his account, but unless he checks it himself at a kiosk or asks a staff member, he may not know it is there until he tries to make a call. The most reliable way to let him know is to send him a letter. Write a short note telling him you have added...
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Sentencing Questions
Can I Use InmateAid to Write to Someone Awaiting Sentencing?
Yes.…

Yes. Sentencing status has no bearing on whether InmateAid can reach him. Whether someone is pre-trial, awaiting sentencing, already sentenced, or mid-transfer, the letter service works the same way. InmateAid routes mail through the US Postal Service to wherever he is currently held, and pretrial and pre-sentence detainees in county and detention facilities receive mail the same way sentenced inmates do. Send the letter, include his name and inmate ID number in the addressing details, and it will go out. Mail...
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Send Inmate Mail
Can my friend send me letters by email?
Inmates do not have access to the Internet, there are some places that do have an email system.…

Inmates do not have access to the Internet, there are some places that do have an email system. All inmates have access to writing materials and stamps (even if they have no money on their books). Your inmate will have to be the one to tell you that they received something from you.
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Send Inmate Mail
Is There a Fee Both Ways When Using InmateAid Letters?
Yes, there is a cost in both directions, and it is worth understanding what you are actually paying for before deciding whether it makes sense for you.…

Yes, there is a cost in both directions, and it is worth understanding what you are actually paying for before deciding whether it makes sense for you. First, these are not emails. InmateAid uses the US Postal Service. When you send a letter, it is physically printed and mailed to the facility. When your inmate writes back, they address the reply to InmateAid's office in South Florida, where it is received, scanned, and posted to your account dashboard. You pay a...
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Sentencing Questions
When Will My Fiance Be Released on 16 Months at 50 Percent?
Half of 16 months is 8 months, and working from his original custody date of July 19, that puts his estimated release around March 19, 2017.…

Half of 16 months is 8 months, and working from his original custody date of July 19, that puts his estimated release around March 19, 2017. The math is straightforward: 8 months from July 19 lands on March 19 regardless of when he arrived at Kern for reception. The reception period at Kern is a classification and intake phase, not additional time on top of his sentence. The time he spent in county from July 19 forward all counts toward the...
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Send Inmate Mail
Do I have to pay each time to receive the letter from my inmate ?
The Letters from Inmate Service is a pay service ($1.49).…

The Letters from Inmate Service is a pay service ($1.49). We receive the letter from the inmate and scan it into your My Account area - then we email you that it is there. Members that want to keep their own address private use our service to send and receive mail with anonymity.  Its convenient, reliable and safe to use.
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
Hi how high is the punishment for probation violation for dwi ?
The violation is related to the original sentence.…

The violation is related to the original sentence. DUI is looked at differently that most violations but the penalty still might result in doing all or a part of the sentence that he's working off
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Send Inmate Mail
What Gets Rejected in Prison Mail and What Gets Through?
Written explicit content generally makes it through.…

Written explicit content generally makes it through. Mailroom staff are primarily looking for specific types of problematic content, not adult material between consenting parties. The things that get flagged and confiscated are communications related to the inmate's current criminal case, anything that looks like running a business from inside the facility, threatening or violent language, anything that mentions contraband, escape-related content, or material that reads like terrorist or extremist communication. Sexually explicit written stories between adults are not on that list...
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Sentencing Questions
My fiance has to 2 strikes, got a long sentence, is eligible for early release
We are not sure that the new early release will benefit offenders that have violence in their case (a gun constitutes violence), sorry to say.…

We are not sure that the new early release will benefit offenders that have violence in their case (a gun constitutes violence), sorry to say. The issue with having a prior incarceration is that the judges are harder on repeat offenders. Your fiance has all the elements (repeat, gang, firearm, ex-con) of someone that is not a great candidate for leniency. 
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Relationship Issues
Do the male inmates commnicate with female inmates by email?
Really??…

Really?? Do you think prison is a dating service? There is zero contact with female inmates by male inmates. Unless they are in a building with windows facing the interior, where they might catch a glimpse of a female inmate, there is no interaction. Inmates do not have access to the internet; there is no inter-communication between inmates online - if they use email (some places have it), it is a closed system with a very strict analytical keyword surveillance. 
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Send Books and Magazines
How long does it take to get the ordered books in solitary?.
They should be delivered to him at the next mail call if they are sitting in the mail room.…

They should be delivered to him at the next mail call if they are sitting in the mail room. You might try calling the facility and ask to speak to the officer in charge of the mail room. Tell them in the most respectful way what you know, what Amazon told you and see if you can get somewhere with a little kindness - it always helps
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Pending Criminal Charges
What if he got a charge on work release, what is he facing?
He is probably not looking at more time, unless what he brought in is either a weapon or a cellphone.…

He is probably not looking at more time, unless what he brought in is either a weapon or a cellphone. The more likely outcome is that he will lose his accrued good time, he will be relegated to the SHU for several weeks or more. He will lose most privileges like phone, visitation and commissary. And finally, he is very likely going to be shipped to a higher security prison to finish out his sentence.
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Money Transfer
Will Inmate Account Money Follow From County Jail to Prison?
The key question is whether his state DOC inmate number has been assigned yet.…

The key question is whether his state DOC inmate number has been assigned yet. Once a person is sentenced to state prison, they are typically assigned a DOC number even before the physical transfer happens. If he has that number, you can deposit money directly into his state DOC account through the state's official deposit platform, and those funds will be waiting for him when he arrives at his assigned facility. To find the right deposit method, go to the Department...
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