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Can we visit the person even we not in the list of visitation?
If the facility requires a pre-screening, you will not be permitted to visit without first being approved by the staff and your background check is clear.…

If the facility requires a pre-screening, you will not be permitted to visit without first being approved by the staff and your background check is clear.
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ICE-Immigration Enforcement
Why Would an Inmate at Big Sandy Be Put in the SHU?
At USP Big Sandy, which is a high-security federal penitentiary in Kentucky, segregation is called the SHU, the Special Housing Unit.…

At USP Big Sandy, which is a high-security federal penitentiary in Kentucky, segregation is called the SHU, the Special Housing Unit. It is solitary confinement, and inmates end up there for one of two broad reasons: disciplinary or administrative. The disciplinary side covers a wide range of infractions. Fighting is the most common reason at a high-security facility like Big Sandy, but the list also includes possession of contraband such as a cellphone, drugs, or tobacco, failing a drug or alcohol...
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Bail & Bond Questions
can you bond an inmate out of prison
No.…

No. Prison is where offenders go to complete their sentence.
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Inmate Transfer
How do you feel about the time that you have done?
I feel like it has made me more aware of the world around me.…

I feel like it has made me more aware of the world around me. Before incarceration I took for granted the wonderful sights and sounds that surround us everyday. Showering barefoot, using the bathroom alone, going to bed whenever it suits me, ice cream, kids laughing, fresh fruit... the list is endless and I am appreciating them all so much more than ever before. Therefore, I feel that the time I've done has helped me enjoy my life now and ahead more than I knew I could.  ...
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Visitation
Can You Visit a Prison Without Being on the Approved List?
In most cases, no.…

In most cases, no. Federal prisons and the majority of state prison systems require visitors to be pre-approved before they can enter. The approval process typically involves the inmate submitting your name to their counselor or case manager, a background check on your end, and formal clearance before your first visit. Showing up without prior approval almost always means being turned away at the door. County jails vary more. Some smaller county facilities allow walk-in visits without a pre-approved list, particularly...
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Send Inmate Mail
When Will My Letter and Photos Arrive at a Texas Prison?
Plan for about 2 to 3 business days for the mail to travel from InmateAid's office to the facility through the US Postal Service.…

Plan for about 2 to 3 business days for the mail to travel from InmateAid's office to the facility through the US Postal Service. That is the transit portion of the timeline and it is fairly predictable. What happens after it arrives at the facility is less predictable. Every mailroom operates differently. Staff open, read, and inspect each piece of incoming mail before it is cleared for distribution. Some facilities turn mail around the same day it comes in, while others...
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Inmate Phone Calls
Who pays the charge for the calls, the subscriber or inmate?
It could be either.…

It could be either. This depends on the system where your inmate is incarcerated. An inmate can make a collect call from ALL jails, prisons and detention facilities This is absoolutely the most expensive call. In most federal facilities, the inmate's TRULINCS account controls the outbound phone calls (along with commissary and CORRLINKS email). Every call made is debited from this account by the minute. Local calls are 1/4 the price of long distance calls. We get people local numbers through our...
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Medical Treatment
How Do I Get Medical Care for My Husband in a CCA Prison?
The medical issue needs to be addressed immediately and separately from the transfer question, because that one is urgent.…

The medical issue needs to be addressed immediately and separately from the transfer question, because that one is urgent. CCA facilities are required to provide medically necessary care, and cancer treatment falls squarely in that category. If your husband has a documented cancer diagnosis and is not receiving treatment, the facility is legally obligated to either provide it or transport him to an outside hospital or specialist. Most CCA facilities in Arizona have arrangements with nearby hospitals for exactly this...
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Relationship Issues
Y do the guys tell there girls to stick by them n then dropp them really I don't get it
Inmates need support.…

Inmates need support. If they are not into you anymore, they will pretend they are so you keep sending them money and have someone to talk to. When their bid is over - they feel free and want to have a fresh start. 
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Inmate Transfer
how do i find out if he's still at the same jail and hasn't been transferd
call the facility…

call the facility
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Send Inmate Mail
Can I Send Sexy Photos to an Inmate Through the Mail?
Sexy photos are absolutely allowed, and they mean more to an inmate than most people realize.…

Sexy photos are absolutely allowed, and they mean more to an inmate than most people realize. The guidelines are straightforward: lingerie shots, bikini photos, and tastefully suggestive poses are all fine. What crosses the line is exposed private parts or anything that would be classified as pornographic. Most facilities reject explicitly sexual material outright, and if it gets flagged in the mailroom, it never reaches him. Strategic posing with hands placed carefully is generally acceptable as long as it stays on...
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Send Inmate Mail
How often can a inmate use your service to send a letter is that controlled by the prison?
There is no limit to the number of letters an inmate may write or receive.…

There is no limit to the number of letters an inmate may write or receive. Inmate mail is considered sacred by the prison system. It is highly promoted and even allows indigent inmates unlimited letter writing resources.
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Money Transfer
Can I send my inmate cash in the mail for his commissary?
We would NOT advise you send cash into a facility mail room, Our guess is that he will never see it.…

We would NOT advise you send cash into a facility mail room, Our guess is that he will never see it.
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Relationship Issues
do you love me ? what did i do to deserve this ?
We are former inmates answering these questions.…

We are former inmates answering these questions. We are not the inmate that you are "speaking to". If you would like to communicate with your inmate like this, click on Letters and Photos and send a sexy picture of yourself and then ask...
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Release Questions
I can't figure out my fiance's release date..Thank u..
There are very few places where it is posted (except maybe in federal).…

There are very few places where it is posted (except maybe in federal). What do you know? Do you know where he is incarcerated. Do you know for how long? Normally the release date is 85% of the imposed sentence.
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