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General Prison Questions-Terminology
Can You See Who Your Inmate Is Contacting in Prison?
Not through any outside channel, and that is by design.…

Not through any outside channel, and that is by design. Inmates retain a degree of privacy in their communications that most people on the outside do not expect. You cannot call the facility and ask for a list of who your person has been talking to. The phone carrier will not share call logs with you. No portal lets a family member or friend pull up a contact history. What the facility does monitor is a different matter. Staff and investigators can...
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Send Books and Magazines
How long does it take for a subscription to get to an inmate...
the usual time for magazine subscriptions to get the first issue delivered is about 8-12 weeks depending on the publisher…

the usual time for magazine subscriptions to get the first issue delivered is about 8-12 weeks depending on the publisher
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Relationship Issues
Can an Inmate Who Cheated Really Change in Prison?
That is not a question anyone outside your relationship can answer for you, and anyone who tells you otherwise is not being straight with you.…

That is not a question anyone outside your relationship can answer for you, and anyone who tells you otherwise is not being straight with you. You know this person. You know whether his words have matched his actions before. You know whether this is the first time you are hearing something like this or the third. You know what his track record looks like when things were easy, before consequences arrived and made honesty feel like the smarter play. Prison changes some...
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Relationship Issues
Why would an inmate push you away?
sometimes there is a feeling of helplessness.…

sometimes there is a feeling of helplessness. other times t is something else. by pushing you away, they are testing you to see if you'll come back. it is a sort of manipulation that an inmate gets very good at. it's like transferring guilt. you have to try and convince them that you are "ride or die".
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Inmate Phone Calls
Is this a good service I paid my money but never received a number
sometimes we cannot save you money so the transaction is refunded and an email explanation is sent to help you get set up properly.…

sometimes we cannot save you money so the transaction is refunded and an email explanation is sent to help you get set up properly.
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Survive Prison
If an inmate is doing federal Time in a County jail does the inmate have different rules
no, they must abide by whatever rules are where they are being held.…

no, they must abide by whatever rules are where they are being held. federal prisoners are in county jail mainly because they are testifying in some case in that jurisdiction.
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Clemency - Pardons
How long does a pardon application take to get an answer.
it takes months to hear back...…

it takes months to hear back... and it's a real long shot
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
Will She Make Parole After 2 Years on an 8-Year Sentence?
The honest answer is that it depends almost entirely on what she did with those two years inside, and you probably already know the answer better than you…

The honest answer is that it depends almost entirely on what she did with those two years inside, and you probably already know the answer better than you think. Parole boards are not complicated in what they look for. They want to see that an inmate followed the rules, stayed out of disciplinary trouble, and engaged with whatever programming her counselor recommended. Substance abuse treatment, educational courses, vocational training, anger management, whatever was on her program plan, completion of those things...
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Prison Discipline
What Happens If an Inmate Gets Caught With a Cell Phone?
Getting caught with a cell phone in prison is one of the worst disciplinary situations an inmate can land in, and the consequences stack on multiple levels.…

Getting caught with a cell phone in prison is one of the worst disciplinary situations an inmate can land in, and the consequences stack on multiple levels. At the facility level it is an immediate major infraction. That means disciplinary segregation, loss of privileges, and a serious entry in the inmate's record that follows them to every subsequent review. When that person sits in front of a parole board, the board sees everything, and a cell phone infraction signals exactly the...
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Prison Discipline
How much time you get if you caught with a cell phone in louisiana
you will be sent to the hole for months…

you will be sent to the hole for months
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Relationship Issues
My Inmate Has Not Written Back. What Should I Do?
First, take a breath.…

First, take a breath. A month without a response does not mean what you are afraid it means. Getting adjusted to incarceration is genuinely hard in ways that are difficult to explain from the outside. The first weeks and months inside are disorienting, humbling, and emotionally exhausting. Some people shut down. Some are too proud to show vulnerability in a letter. Some are still trying to figure out who they are in this new environment before they can reach out to...
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Relationship Issues
How can I get phone record of my husband that he is making .
you cannot get that information, he has a complete right of privacy.…

you cannot get that information, he has a complete right of privacy. he can, however, request a copy and could share it with you if you are interested in a reaction
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Relationship Issues
How can you find out if an inmate wants correspondence?
write them and see what happens...…

write them and see what happens... if you do nothing, you'll always wonder and in turn, you'll never give the inmate a chance to prove you're right/wrong
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Release Questions
Is Home Confinement Possible Instead of a Halfway House?
Home confinement has been one of the preferred release options for non-violent inmates during COVID-related early release programs, and it is possible that your…

Home confinement has been one of the preferred release options for non-violent inmates during COVID-related early release programs, and it is possible that your husband's halfway house placement could shift to home confinement depending on the specific program authorizing his release and the BOP's current protocols. During the height of the pandemic the CARES Act gave the Bureau of Prisons expanded authority to place inmates on home confinement, and that authority was used more broadly for medically vulnerable and non-violent inmates...
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Send Inmate Mail
Can I Send a Letter to Joe Exotic in Federal Prison?
Yes, you can send a letter to Joe Exotic #26154-017, whose legal name is Joseph Allen Maldonado-Passage.…

Yes, you can send a letter to Joe Exotic #26154-017, whose legal name is Joseph Allen Maldonado-Passage. His BOP Inmate ID is 26154-017. He is currently housed in a federal correctional facility. To send him a letter use InmateAid's letter service which handles addressing and delivery directly to his facility. You can also send him magazines, books, and photos through InmateAid. All mail to federal inmates goes through a mailroom screening process before delivery. Keep the contents appropriate and avoid any...
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