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Inmate Care Packages
How to Send Care Packages to an Inmate in Prison?
Sending a care package to someone in prison is not as simple as boxing up items and shipping them from home. Most correctional facilities do not accept...
Send Inmate Money
How to send money to a inmate in Jail or Prison?
Sending money to an inmate is one of the most practical things you can do to support someone on the inside. Money on their books gives them access to...
General Prison Questions-Terminology
"What is the difference between jail and prison?
Jail and prison are two distinct types of correctional facilities that serve different purposes, house different populations, and operate under different...
Inmate Phone Calls
How do I get a phone call from my husband who has just been transported there
When an inmate arrives at a new facility, phone access does not begin immediately. There is an intake and orientation process that typically takes one to two...
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What is Everglades CI like for inmates and families?
It is completely normal to feel nervous, especially if this is your first experience with the prison system.…
It is completely normal to feel nervous, especially if this is your first experience with the prison system. The good news is that a transfer closer to home, especially on good adjustment, is a positive sign.
Everglades CI is not considered one of the more dangerous or chaotic facilities. It houses a mix of inmates, but many are closer to release or have demonstrated better behavior. In those environments, most people are focused on doing their time, staying out of trouble,...
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How do I know when inmates I send letters to have received them
We estimate that it takes 2-3 business days to make it to the jail.…
We estimate that it takes 2-3
business days to make it to the jail. Once there, the staff opens and reads
each piece of mail and
inspects it for contraband. Any delay that occurs at the facility is out of our
control. We make no guarantees as to how long it will take as there are
thousands of facilities and none of them do things the same way.Please
be patient, if the ID number and facility are correct we are 100%
reliable.Mail call is Monday - Friday...
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When can inmates use commissary and send letters?
Since your husband was just transferred to the Middleton Unit, he is likely still going through intake and processing.…
Since your husband was just transferred to the Middleton Unit, he is likely still going through intake and processing. That can affect both commissary access and communication during the first couple of weeks.
Commissary access:
Inmates can usually shop commissary once a week, but they must:
Be fully processed into the unit
Have money in their trust account
At about a week and a half in, he is likely getting close. In many cases, inmates are able to access commissary within the first 1 to...
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How Do I Get in Touch With the Judge or Their Secretary?
The path to a judge's secretary runs through the courthouse, not through any direct listing you will find online.…
The path to a judge's secretary runs through the courthouse, not through any direct listing you will find online. Here is how to navigate it.
Call the Clerk of the Court in the jurisdiction where your family member was sentenced. When someone answers, explain that you need to contact the judge assigned to a specific case and ask for the judge's name and the courtroom or chambers number. The clerk's office maintains these assignments and can point you in the right...
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Can a long sentence be reduced after 6 years served?
There is a possibility but the circumstances laid out by the judge will dictate whether it's even possible.…
There is a possibility but the circumstances laid out by the judge will dictate whether it's even possible. If the judge allows for parole, then there is one potential option for early release. There are "good time" credits which exist for all inmates. The caveat is that they have to remain in good standing with the prison staff, with no incidence reports or trips to the SHU for bad behavior. The good time usually represents about 15% off. Finally, if...
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How do I look up my mom on here
The inmate pages are created and maintained by the member/users of the site.…
The inmate pages are created and maintained by the member/users of the site. We do not monitor or verify this self-generated content.
If you want to use the service on the website, you will need to set up a profile. If you need help, please send us the inmate name, inmate ID, state and facility name and we will set it up for you.
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If I had a warrant out for my arrest for a fine how long will I have.
It depends on how badly they want you.…
It depends on how badly they want you. If it is a minor offense like a fine, they will probably not have the sheriff or the US Marshal bring you in. Usually that type of offender gets caught in a traffic stop or something like that. Why not just pay the fine and not have to worry about the added cost associated with getting locked up like bail and a lawyer?
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Is Norco a jail or a state prison?
Norco is a state prison, part of the California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation system.…
Norco is a state prison, part of the California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation system. It is formally known as the California Rehabilitation Center (CRC) in Norco.
It is not a county jail. That means he is now in the state prison system rather than a local county facility.
The reason he was able to call you so quickly this time is likely because his information carried over from his previous placement. When inmates transfer within the same system, things like their approved...
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How do you get approved for visits?
Visitation is different in every prison system.…
Visitation is different in every prison system. Whether it is federal, state or state, they all have a set of rules that have to be followed - where your inmate may have to place you on a list. Some require a form to be filled out and background check performed (Arizona requires you to pay a fee for that check). Others allow you to come straight in with just a government ID. What prison are you thinking about visiting, we...
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Can Someone With a 36-Month Sentence Get Out Early on Parole
Whether parole is possible depends entirely on the jurisdiction and the specific language in the sentencing order.…
Whether parole is possible depends entirely on the jurisdiction and the specific language in the sentencing order.
In the federal system, there is no parole. Federal inmates serve 85 percent of their sentence with good time credits as the primary mechanism for earlier release. On a 36-month federal sentence, that works out to approximately 30 months served under ideal circumstances. With one year already completed, there would be roughly 18 months remaining under that calculation.
In state systems, parole eligibility varies significantly....
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Does a TDCJ Transfer Require a New Securus Phone Number?
If he got moved, you might need another number.…
If he got moved, you might need another number. If you do, we will get it for you at no additional charge. If they are both in the TDCJ, the carrier is going to remain Securus but we will check to see if you need another number. The Texas number you have would be the same price you've been paying, but we found another number that would carve another $0.75 off the per-call price. Would you like that number?
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What Happens on a Second Probation Violation in Virginia?
A second probation violation, particularly one that has escalated from a misdemeanor to a felony level, puts your fiancé in a genuinely difficult position…
A second probation violation, particularly one that has escalated from a misdemeanor to a felony level, puts your fiancé in a genuinely difficult position before the original sentencing judge in Virginia.
Here is what typically happens. When someone violates probation, they go back before the judge who originally gave them probation instead of a longer sentence. That judge made a decision to show leniency the first time. A second violation signals to the court that the leniency was not taken seriously,...
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Will a Relationship With an Inmate Who Scams Others Last?
The question you are asking is the right one, and the fact that you are asking it out loud suggests you already have a sense of the answer.…
The question you are asking is the right one, and the fact that you are asking it out loud suggests you already have a sense of the answer. That clarity deserves to be respected rather than talked around.
Incarceration creates a specific kind of dynamic where an inmate's ability to act on their feelings is genuinely limited. They cannot show up, cannot provide, cannot demonstrate love through action in the ways that a relationship outside requires. Some people who love someone...
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Can I prepay to receive inmate replies online?
Yes, you can set it up so that your inmate’s reply comes back to you online, but it is not a traditional “prepay” like paying for their postage.…
Yes, you can set it up so that your inmate’s reply comes back to you online, but it is not a traditional “prepay” like paying for their postage.
What you are doing is using the InmateAid Response Mail service.
Here is how it works:
When you send your letter, the return address is set to InmateAid, not your home
Your inmate writes back like normal using regular mail
The letter is sent to InmateAid’s address
InmateAid scans the letter into your account
You get notified and can...
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How long does it take the letters online to be processed ... (when will he get it ?)
The letter order flows through our Admin area to the Processing Department.…
The letter order flows through
our Admin area to the Processing Department. Letters are processed immediately
upon entry unless it is after 6pm on Saturday, then the letters do not go
through the process until Monday morning. You may check in your My Account area
to see the status of your letter order.
We estimate
that it takes 2-3 business days to make it to the jail. Once there, the staff
opens and reads each piece of mail and inspects
it for contraband. Any delay that occurs at...
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