What can I do to be there for support. Write letters make sure money is on his books make sure he has a calling card and/or anything else? He wants me to go on with my life cause I know its a lot harder to do our time when u don't leave everything in the rearveiw but I would like to know if there is anything that I can do to make his time easier and help me out at the same time.

How long did he get? The length of time is going to be a big component in how things turn out. Obviously it is a very emotional time for you both and any decision you make should be done with a lot of thought and contemplation. Of course the support can be through sending books, magazines, letters and photos. The more photos you send (of yourself), the closer your bond will be. If you do though, recognize what it's doing for or to, you both. You can do this if it's in your heart. If you are feeling guilty, that will only last a few months before that wears off and you are over it. It's gonna be tough on you either way. Please let us know if you have other thoughts you'd care to share.