We really would have no way of knowing the reason, but we would encourage you to call the counselor, case manager or chaplain. They are usually very kind and open to helping.

Probably not. But, without knowing all the facts it is just a guess. If he has violated three times, maybe he wants to be in there?

As long as it takes for the inmate to correspond. Writing back is on the inmate, right?

We would advise that you not go to visitation without first seeking special permission from the warden's office. If you approach them first and explain your situation in the most humble manner, you have a 50/50 chance of getting to see him. If you explain after being turned down, your chances get worse.

Highly unlikely any judge would require a federal inmate be present at a divorce trial. If the judge wants to hear from the inmate, it would be a telephonic communication request. The BOP is known to allow inmates, as a party to a civil lawsuit, make a call(s) to their lawyer to convey how they would like to be represented.

He needs to wake up and go see the counselor himself. If there is a hold, he HAS to be informed. We would be surprised if he didn't know already (and maybe doesn't want to tell you). The way it works is when you are so close to the door (8 months is short time), your counselor is meeting with you at least twice a month. They are gathering information to position the release, approve the next residence, etc. If

It's hard to give the advice that we want to give versus the advice you want to hear. Inmates that go in and out of jail are not going to be easy to live with. The incarceration process definitely changes a person but the ones that are going to succeed after release are the ones that have made the conscious decision to change their ways, habits and people they associate with. Justin is not in that category yet. If you

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It is not our place to determine whether you are a good girlfriend. You have to be at peace with your decision to stay. If you are going to ride it out until the end with himi, just know there are going to be some rough spots along the way. Be prepared and feel free to write back as often as possible over the coming months if you need questions answered.

The advice you've been given is incorrect. The rule is that they do not allow felons into visitation, but there are exceptions to this rule. You must petition the warden BEFORE filling out an application. You should call the warden's office and speak to the secretary. Ask in the most humber manner possible, to provide you with instructions on how to get permission from the warden to see your boyfriend. During this conversation, make sure to be forthright and honest