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Send Inmate Mail
Do I need to call the prison to see if the inmate got my letter?
you can call the prison and ask to speak to the mail room…

you can call the prison and ask to speak to the mail room
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Send Inmate Mail
How Do I Send a Postcard and Set Up Calls With InmateAid?
Sending a postcard or photo through InmateAid is straightforward.…

Sending a postcard or photo through InmateAid is straightforward. Create an account, add your friend as an inmate by entering their name, inmate ID, and facility, and then go to the Letters or Postcards section to upload a photo or write a message. InmateAid handles the printing and mailing from their office in South Florida. The postcard typically reaches the facility within a day or two through the US Postal Service. After that, it goes through the facility mailroom where...
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Inmate Phone Calls
Why Hasnt My Boyfriend Called From Topeka Youth Center?
The money on his books is not the issue.…

The money on his books is not the issue. The issue is the contact policy at juvenile facilities, and it works very differently from adult jails and prisons. Juvenile correctional facilities restrict communication to immediate family members only. That means parents, siblings, and grandparents. Girlfriends are not included in that category regardless of how serious the relationship is or how long you have been together. It is not personal and it is not about you specifically. It is a blanket policy...
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Relationship Issues
Do the female guards mess with the inmates at Cheyenne mountain re-entry center
Not likely, however it does happen from time-to-time at institutions across the country.…

Not likely, however it does happen from time-to-time at institutions across the country. We post stories of women who have compromised the system by having an affair and then doing something that crossed the legal-line. Then they get arrested and become an inmate themselves.
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Inmate Phone Calls
How do i get on an inmates approved calling list?
The inmate will need to add you to that list…

The inmate will need to add you to that list
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Pending Criminal Charges
Will Oklahoma Extradite Someone for an Unpaid Fines Warrant?
The day to day risk of being actively hunted down is low, but the warrant does not expire and it does not care where she lives.…

The day to day risk of being actively hunted down is low, but the warrant does not expire and it does not care where she lives. Law enforcement agencies are not going to dispatch marshals across state lines to track down someone for failure to pay fines. The resources required for that kind of active pursuit are reserved for violent offenders and serious fugitives. An unpaid fine warrant, even one classified as a felony, is not going to trigger that response. What...
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Send Inmate Mail
How Long to Get a Response Letter Back From My Inmat?
Once your inmate writes a response and mails it to the InmateAid return address, the letter typically arrives and gets processed within a day or two of…

Once your inmate writes a response and mails it to the InmateAid return address, the letter typically arrives and gets processed within a day or two of InmateAid receiving it. The full round-trip timeline breaks down into two legs. The first is how long it takes your inmate to actually write and mail the response, which depends entirely on them and their access to mail call at the facility. Once they drop the letter, it travels through USPS to InmateAid. Standard...
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Send Inmate Mail
Does an Inmate Pay to Read Letters Sent Through InmateAid?
No, there is no cost to the inmate on either end of the process.…

No, there is no cost to the inmate on either end of the process. When you send a letter, postcard, or photo through InmateAid, the cost is covered on your end when you place the order. The inmate receives the physical mail at no charge to their commissary account. Nothing gets deducted from their books when a letter arrives. On the response side, your inmate writes a letter by hand and mails it back to the InmateAid return address the same way...
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Relationship Issues
How Do I Become a Pen Pal to an Inmate Through InmateAid?
What you are thinking about doing matters more than you might realize.…

What you are thinking about doing matters more than you might realize. Inmates who have outside contact, people who write, who check in, who treat them like human beings worth communicating with, have measurably better outcomes than those who are completely isolated. A letter from someone who has no obligation to write but chose to anyway carries a different kind of weight than almost anything else that comes through mail call. Getting started is straightforward. InmateAid has over two million incarcerated...
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
When Does a Probation Revocation Sentence Start?
The clock starts when he is picked up and taken into custody, not when the paperwork is signed.…

The clock starts when he is picked up and taken into custody, not when the paperwork is signed. Signing the revocation papers on Monday set the legal process in motion, but time served does not begin until physical custody begins. The moment law enforcement or transport takes him into custody is day one, and that day counts as a full day regardless of what time it happens. If they pick him up at 11:55 at night, that entire calendar day counts...
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Inmate Phone Calls
How does this phone service work
By using an InmateAid number, you are lowering the price of the call.…

By using an InmateAid number, you are lowering the price of the call. You can talk longer for a lot less money. Prisons contract with only one prison phone company to provide outbound inmate calling services for each prison, jail or detention center. The prison phone company has no competition. We don't replace the prison phone company, we are simply providing a number that makes their call price less (based solely on the telephone number). People that come to InmateAid are already...
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Send Inmate Mail
is there any special way of writing a letter to an inmate, like dos and donts?
The correspondence rules are similar for all detention centers (jails, prisons, penitentiaries), the letters may be and probably are read by the Correctional…

The correspondence rules are similar for all detention centers (jails, prisons, penitentiaries), the letters may be and probably are read by the Correctional Officers. Unless this offender is on some mail restriction for things you should already know about (terrorist-type charges), mail is considered sacred and they don't censor much. You cannot speak of business issues like moving money around, buying/selling real estate, stocks or bonds. You cannot speak of escape or anything conveying surveillance of the institution. And you...
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General Prison Questions-Terminology
Are there female guards at Jackson perish in Louisiana ?
Yes, there are.…

Yes, there are. The state prison system has no discriminations against women being guards in a men's facility. In fact, it occurs in all fifty states. 
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Parole, Probation & Supervised Release
Is Seeing Reentry Staff a Sign My Husband Will Get Parole?
It is a very good sign, but it is not a guarantee, and understanding the difference matters as you prepare for what comes next.…

It is a very good sign, but it is not a guarantee, and understanding the difference matters as you prepare for what comes next. Meeting with reentry staff is a required step in the parole consideration process, not a rubber stamp that parole is coming. What the reentry team is doing is helping build the foundation of his parole application, specifically the release plan. They want to see that he has somewhere stable to go, a realistic path to employment, and...
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Marriage in Prison
How to Get Married to an Inmate at FCI Dublin California?
It can be done, and it has been done.…

It can be done, and it has been done. The process runs through the warden's office and requires your fiancée to take the lead on initiating it from the inside. The first step is for her to submit a formal petition to the warden requesting permission to marry while incarcerated. That petition needs to make a genuine case for why the marriage should happen now rather than after release. Wardens are not looking to approve these requests casually, so the petition...
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