the facility has that information, ask to speak to the case manager

There is no set answer, so we say "maybe". The history of inmates getting released and leaving their significant other almost immediately after the release is a puzzling fact that we are not sure why it is so. But, we know that it is an overwhelmingly high statistic. Depending on how long the incarceration period was will skew the statistics. The short time inmate doesn't have the longevity to become institutionalized. Inmates in long-term incarceration begin to rely on the

Without knowing the facts, we do know that inmates are pretty good at explaining things in a way that always make them the victim rather than the problem. You man has gone in more than once, this puts him in the category of someone that doesn't yet get it. Inmates do not get "screwed over" by their loved ones on the outside, more likely the inmate did something to make that jilted person cynical and vindictive because it is them

Yes - this could get ugly. Domestic violence with quite possibly an attempted murder charge added on, is probably why the bond was denied. The courts are having no problem handing out long, severe punishment for crimes against women - and rightfully so. The girl that was strangled is a weaker victim, your son being arrested five times is not going to look good to the judge making the decision on sentencing.

He has to want to change. You are not the problem. If you think that you are going to change him, you are wrong. He has now been in the system which makes it easy to get caught up in something else (because they are now watching him more closely) and the future is going to be tougher than before this charge. If you see that he is willing to cut off all ties to his old friends and stop

How does a guy with a double assault charge allow ANYONE to take from him without getting a little crazy?If he allows another inmate to take his stuff, then he can expect more of this to happen. We are not advocating that he get into fights, but the predators that he's locked up with will see this as weakness, him an easy mark and they will continue taking from him until there is nothing left to take. He can be

We really would have no way of knowing the reason, but we would encourage you to call the counselor, case manager or chaplain. They are usually very kind and open to helping.

Probably not. But, without knowing all the facts it is just a guess. If he has violated three times, maybe he wants to be in there?

As long as it takes for the inmate to correspond. Writing back is on the inmate, right?

We would advise that you not go to visitation without first seeking special permission from the warden's office. If you approach them first and explain your situation in the most humble manner, you have a 50/50 chance of getting to see him. If you explain after being turned down, your chances get worse.