No, the inmate is granted the same privacy that you ore on the outside. If you don't trust him, stop paying for stuff

If you are thinking this, then you already know the answer from past experience. It's too much of a generalization to say "most inmates lie to their loved ones", but I've seen inmates be complete dogs to their wives behind their back. Some wives are blindly paying for their commissary, phone, and email. You know your husband better than anyone... if you are suspecting something, you know the deal already. If you want to keep paying but limit the calls

Yes, you should wait until they are confirmed at their permanent housing unit to send anything. There is no address for "In Transit".

It takes a solid week before your inmate can communicate with you, but you can send something now, and they will get it when they go to "mail call".

You have to have a Securus account regardless... but the phone number the inmate dials has a wide range of prices for the same call. So, an InmateAid number will make the Securus call price significantly lower

Not through any channel other than your inmate's truthfulness... but if you are asking you probably know the answer

It sounds like you need to make some decisions

  No me rendiría tan rápido. Pruebe con otra carta (tal vez a través de nuestro sitio) y vea qué sucede. Los reclusos entienden sus sentimientos fácilmente, es posible que deba ser más persistente de lo habitual

as few as possible... but sometimes you have to protect yourself and let nature take it's course

call the institution and start with the unit team secretary, then the counselor, and then the case manager. One of them will give you a status report on your inmate