If she has a warrant and enters a detention facility visiting room, she will definitely be held on the warrant until the issuing jurisdiction comes for her.

That is a very good point, but there is another side to it. Inmates that have a job and do actually receive a "pay check", but their pay is miniscule. They make about 12 cents an hour on average. If the phone calls are several dollars each, there are not enough work hours to pay for all of the calls you'd like to get.  If you are mad at him and do not want to pay for the calls, you

This is something that you might have a better feel for, since you know him. He will probably get back to you after he straightens out his problems with his girlfriend.

There is nothing easy about incarceration - for them or for you. Separation is painful but time tends to heal the wounds. Depending upon the crime, the length of the sentence and financial situation weighs accordingly. If you are strong and want to help your inmate get through this in the most comfortable fashion, InmateAid has all of the services that will make that possible. Although we encourage you to engage and remain connected, we also caution you to not

You want to change who your inmate may call? That will NEVER happen. You cannot control the inmate's call list, visitation list or how they spend the money they have on their books. Inmates have privacy rights, too. If you do not want an inmate to contact you, you can call the facility and speak to a counselor or case manager - they will see to it that you are not disturbed.

There must be some hard feelings there. Why did you wait FOUR years? Have you ever attempted to commnicate with him by mail? Letter writing might be the best way for both of you to being an exchange of feelings - about what went wrong between you and how can you fix it.

Your inmates visitation log is covered by the privacy laws. There is no provision where this information will be disclosed without his consent.

Twenty years is a long time. The key to communication is trust. Trust is earned over time. We are not suggesting that there isn't any between you; we are saying that you two need time together to learn to trust. When a man is incarcerated for twenty years, he is used to be told what to do, when to do it and there isn't much room for independence and freedom. So, they become introverted and good at keeping their emotions

Inmates need support. If they are not into you anymore, they will pretend they are so you keep sending them money and have someone to talk to. When their bid is over - they feel free and want to have a fresh start. 

We are former inmates answering these questions. We are not the inmate that you are "speaking to". If you would like to communicate with your inmate like this, click on Letters and Photos and send a sexy picture of yourself and then ask...